Hot, Sexy, and Simple Sex Tips for Valentine’s Day

Hot, Sexy, and Simple Sex Tips for Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to show your partner how much they mean to you, and one of the best ways to do that is through amazing sex. 

It doesn’t have to be difficult or overwhelming; there are simple tips that any man can follow, which have instant results.

In this article, we will discuss some hot, simple, and sexy Valentine’s day ideas for guys that will make your night more pleasurable than ever before!

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Be Romantic

Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to show your special someone how much you care. Whether you’ve been together for years or are just starting, there are plenty of ways to make this Day special.

Being romantic is a great way to set the mood for an intimate evening. Take the time to plan something special for your partner, like a candlelit dinner or a surprise gift. Show them that you care and that you’re thinking of them. You can also add romantic touches to your bedroom, such as rose petals on the bed or scented candles around the room. You can also set massage oils on the nightstand for her to see when she enters the room. These small gestures will make your partner feel special and appreciated.

Take your time with the motions, allowing the sexual tension to build. Focus on each moment and savor the experience to get the most of all these Valentines Day sex ideas.

Try New Things

Valentine’s Day is the ideal opportunity to experiment in the bedroom. Whether it’s a new date night idea, sex position, toy, or even role-playing, use props or toys or even incorporate food into your sex play. Exploring different ways to have sex can be incredibly exciting and pleasurable. Talk to your partner about what they want to try, and then take it from there.

Be bold, think outside the box, and come up with new ideas to please your partner. 

Think Outside the Box

Don’t be afraid to try something new and exciting. Why not try role-playing, anal play, light bondage, or sexy games if you’re feeling adventurous? You can also experiment with toys and props to spice things up.

Bondage can be a great option if you’re looking for a way to add some kink to the bedroom. But if you’re starting, it can be intimidating to know where to begin. Luckily, plenty of easy and beginner-friendly toys for bondage can be used to explore this type of play.

From blindfolds and handcuffs to rope and restraints, plenty of options can help you get started.

Kiss Passionately

Demonstrate to your partner how passionate you can be. Take the time to explore each other’s bodies with romantic and sensual kisses. Start slow and gentle, then gradually build up the intensity as things heat up. 

Take your time and savor every moment by kissing every inch of her body from top to bottom. Don’t be afraid to use your hands to caress and explore each other’s bodies while making out.

Give Her an Erotic Massage

Show your love for your partner through a relaxing massage and creating an unforgettable atmosphere, leading to great sex. 

Start by setting the scene with scented candles, soft music, and massage oils. Once you’re ready, start by lightly massaging your partner’s shoulders and back. Use slow, gentle strokes and gradually increase the pressure as she relaxes. You can also focus on her erogenous zones, such as her neck and inner thighs. Take your time. The more time you give her to relax and sink into the atmosphere, the more likely she is to be in the mood for some hot sex. 

Treat Yourselves to a Couple's Massage

Couples massages are a great way to show your partner how much you care. Not only is it incredibly relaxing, but it can also be incredibly intimate and sensual. Start by setting the scene with scented candles, soft music, and massage oils. Once you’re ready, take turns giving each other a massage. Focus on her erogenous zones, such as her neck, inner thighs, and breasts. Take your time and enjoy the moment.

For a luxurious treat, arrange a couples massage from a private masseur at a salon or spa. Book your appointment early, especially around the holidays, as spaces fill up fast. Enjoy the relaxation and reconnect with your partner as you both experience the bliss of a skilled masseur.

Dress Like a Gentleman

Put on your best suit or dress shirt and tie, and make sure you look your best for your date. Not only will it make your partner feel special, but it will also give her an extra boost of confidence. Then take her out for a romantic dinner. Choose a restaurant with an intimate atmosphere, and dress up for the occasion. Take your time and enjoy each other’s company as you savor the delicious food.

Valentine’s Day is one of the times you can justify an expensive meal. Buy whatever her heart desires. Bonus tip: Order an aphrodisiac such as oysters or chocolate-covered strawberries for dessert.

From under the table, reveal a small gift. Write your lover a love letter or surprise her with a new necklace, bracelet, or other tokens of affection. 

Don’t let your suit and tie go to waste. After the meal, instead of heading back to the house, surprise her by making a seemingly wrong turn that leads to a nice hotel in town. Once you’re in the hotel room, take your time and enjoy each other. 

To add something special, consider bringing warm massage oil to give her a warm massage. Massage oil is a simple and inexpensive way to liven up your Valentine’s Day occasion.

Begin with subtle music and aromatic candles in addition to the massage oil. When ready, begin by tenderly manipulating her back and shoulders with smooth strokes, slowly escalating the intensity as she relaxes. You can also pinpoint areas that make her tingle, like her neck or inner thighs.

Take your time and allow the massage to transition to sex. Don’t forget to cuddle afterward. Cuddling is important in any relationship and is incredibly intimate and romantic. Enjoy each other’s company as you drift off into a peaceful sleep.

Breakfast in Bed

Wake up early on Valentine’s Day for morning sex, ensuring your partner has at least one orgasm. When she’s in the pillows and sheets, get up from the bed and tell her to wait a moment and not leave the room until you return.

She will be surprised and wonder what you’re doing. Go into the kitchen and quickly prepare a simple but thoughtful breakfast. Serve on a plate with a small love letter next to it. This will be a great way to start the day and show your partner you are thoughtful. Plus, it’s great to get her in the mood for some sexy fun later on.

Become a Master Chef

Spend your Valentine’s Day in the kitchen with your partner. Bonus tip: Cook while wearing nothing but an apron. This goes for both of you. Cooking together can be a great way to bond and get closer. Plus, it’s a great way to show off your skills in the kitchen. You can even make it into a competition and see who can create the best dish.

Once you’re done cooking, enjoy the meal together and then move on to “dessert.” This is where things can get interesting!

Try out some new and exciting sex positions that you’ve never tried before. This is a easy way to spice up your sex life and make the night even more special.

Another option is a surprise romantic dinner at home. Arrive home before she does, or invite her to your apartment if you live separately. Tell her you will be going out to eat so that she does not suspect what awaits her in the home. You should shout from the kitchen when she opens the door and be waiting there, wearing nothing but your apron and a little chef’s hat. Tell her to take off her coat and shoes, sit down, and get ready for what you prepared.

Don’t know how to cook? Order takeout and try to pass it off as your own. It’s sneaky to surprise your partner without risking an upset stomach. Remember to serve your special someone aphrodisiac foods like oysters, chocolate, and strawberries.

Try Edible Panties

Edible panties are a great choice. With multiple varieties of flavors, this present will be sure to make your partner smile. 

Find a pair of edible panties you think your significant other will adore and surprise them at the right time. Your significant other is guaranteed to be thrilled by the unusual Valentine’s Day gift and delighted to try it out before you eat them off of your partner.

Eat Chocolate Off Her Body

Chocolate is a classic aphrodisiac and Valentine’s Day staple. So why not take it to the next level by eating chocolate or whipped cream off your partner’s body?

Start by melting dark chocolate in a bowl and drizzling it over the body. Then, use your tongue to lick up the chocolate and savor its delicious flavor. The experience will be incredibly sensual for both of you.

When you’re finished and covered with sticky substances, take a hot shower together and head back to the bedroom for other erotic massages and to make the most of those Valentine’s day sex toys.

Prepare an Expensive Bath

Add rose petals on the bed and bathtub for an extra special touch. If you want to go all out, you can prepare a luxurious bath for your partner. Fill the tub with warm water and add some bath salts and essential oils, filling the room with aromas.

Then light candles around the tub to create a romantic ambiance. Another option is lighting candles and leaving a trail from the bedroom into the bathroom. 

Once you’re done, help your partner into the tub and give her a sensual massage on her neck and shoulders as she relaxes in the warm water. This will surely be an unforgettable experience that will leave her feeling relaxed and ready for hot sex.

Have Bathtub Sex

Why not slide into the bathtub with her and have bathtub sex? This is a terrific way to explore each other’s bodies in a new and exciting way.

Take turns exploring each other’s bodies with your hands and tongues. Then move on to more intimate positions such as doggy style or cowgirl. The warm water will make it easier to move around and explore.

Plus, the slippery surface of the tub can provide an extra level of pleasure. Just make sure to be careful not to slip and hurt yourselves!

Send a Sultry Sext

Send your partner a sexy sext to get them in the mood—Sext frequently all day by starting with simple innuendos, inside jokes, and references to sex.

As the day progresses, move on to more explicit and sexual content. When she’s receptive to it, send a naughty photo of yourself or even a video of you performing a striptease while holding a Valentine’s Day teddy bear or other objects that remind her of the holiday or give her a hint of what’s to come when you and her meet for the evening. This will get her heart racing and prepare her for a uniquely exhilarating and unforgettable evening. 

Go Lingerie Shopping Together

Take your partner to the lingerie store and pick out something you both find sexy. This will be a fun and thrilling experience for both of you, and you can even take turns picking pieces for each other, making it even more special.

Show her how well you know her by giving her the lingerie you selected. Make sure to double-check the style and size – she’ll be sure to be delighted and ready to wear it for you!

Run a Rose Over Her Body

A rose is a classic symbol of love and romance, so why not use it to add extra spice to your Valentine’s Day sex session? Run a rose over your partner’s body, lightly tickling them with the petals. This will create an incredibly sensual experience that will leave them wanting more. Remember to decorate the bed with roses and rose petals as a great way to set the mood for a romantic night of lovemaking. Place rose petals around the bed and on your partner’s body to create a sensual atmosphere, give her erotic massages, and initiate sex.

Live to Serve

Demonstrate to your significant other how much you care by pampering them. Allow your partner’s requests, fantasies, and cravings to be heard and followed.

This could mean anything from a backrub to treating her to dinner or even tidying the home. It can even incorporate more racy and X-rated activities if she would like! Throughout the day, feel free to show what is on your mind and lovingly guide your significant other in that direction. 

Show your partner you’re willing to do anything for her on Valentine’s Day. 

Try a Sexy Game

Want to make your Valentine’s Day even more special? Include a saucy sex game! Play a game like strip poker or truth or dare together and make the bedroom atmosphere light and playful before getting hot and heavy.

Have Sex in Nature

For a special Valentine’s Day, head out to nature for an intimate evening of romance and sex. Find a peaceful area in the woods or near the beach and enjoy a night together under the stars. The extraordinary setting will add a special touch for a truly memorable session.

Buy a Special Valentine's Sex Toy

Valentine’s Day is ideal for invigorating your intimate life and adding a little extra enthusiasm. You can do this by splurging on a unique and specific adult toy for you and your mate.

From vibrators to dildos, this will include a heightened sense of enjoyment in your sexual experience. Furthermore, experimenting with different toys can be enjoyable and help both discover what brings maximum pleasure.

Unsure of where to begin or never bought a sex toy before? We’ve got you covered! Check out this YouTube video for tips on pleasuring your partner with sex toys no matter the occasion.

Experiment With Bondage

You and your partner can spice up the bedroom this Valentine’s Day with a few kinky activities.

Bondage can be a fun and stimulating way to explore each other in new ways. Start slow with light bondage play, and then work your way up.

Wearing blindfolds and using handcuffs can add some excitement to the bedroom. Take turns tying each other up, or allow your partner to tie you up with your consent.

For something a little racier, try bondage with paddles, floggers, and even temperature play using ice and hot wax from the Valentine’s Day candles you are burning that evening. 

Remember, communication is key in bondage play, so talk to your partner about what they are comfortable with and what they would like to try.

To learn more about bondage, read this

Try Tantra

Tantra is an ancient practice that focuses on connecting the physical and spiritual aspects of sex. It can be a great way to add some extra uniqueness to your Valentine’s Day sex session. Try different positions, breathing techniques, and massage to create a more intimate experience with your partner.


Valentine’s Day is a magnificent time to prove to your partner how much you care about them. From an exquisite dinner, a unique present, or a few racy activities in the bedroom, there are many techniques to make this special Day incredibly meaningful.

With these sexy Valentine’s day ideas, you can form an incredible and unforgettable day for both of you. 

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