Kissing isn’t something that only happens on the lips; there are plenty of other sensitive areas to explore with your mouth. I’m sure you can think of a few!
Kissing, licking, and sucking your partner’s nipples during foreplay can greatly increase pleasure if done correctly.
This guide will teach you how to kiss nipples the right way!
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Don’t rush into it; take time to build up the pleasure.
Start by lightly kissing the erogenous zones, such as a woman’s neck. There are numerous erogenous zones on a woman’s body. When stimulated, these extremely sensitive areas increase sexual arousal.
Many women like having their breasts kissed but still need time to get into the mood!
Starting slow will help to get her in the mood and make her more receptive to sex. Once you have built up some anticipation, slowly work your way down to her chest.
Take your time gently kissing a woman’s breast, one breast at a time. Focus your attention on the entire breast first and then the nipples.
Use Your Warm Breath
Using your warm breath can be a great way to tease your partner before kissing her.
Start by lightly blowing on the area around the nipples called the areola, gradually increasing the intensity as your partner responds.
Another way to use your breath is to lightly exhale on the nipples and then kiss them, creating a cooling sensation that can be very pleasurable.
Use Light Pressure
Once your lips reach your partner’s nipples, use light pressure when you press them against their skin. Start gently and gradually increase the intensity if they want more stimulation.
This technique helps amplify pleasure while playing into an element of surprise—using too much pressure can be a turn-off.
Get Them Wet
Don’t forget that lubrication and moisture are key ingredients in successful nipple play!
Make sure both your lips are lubed up and use lube directly onto the skin before any contact is made to avoid dryness or chafing during activities such as licking or sucking, making everything feel much more enjoyable overall.
Use the Tip of Your Tongue
Lightly trace circles around the areola with the tip of your tongue, gradually increasing pressure as your partner responds positively.
Then, use the tip of your tongue to flick back and forth across the nipple, creating a pleasurable sensation.
When you start focusing on the nipple, try using your entire tongue, not just the tip, to engage all areas of the breast.
Suck on Them
After kissing and licking, use your lips to gently suck on the nipple, creating a vacuum-like sensation that will send shivers down her spine.
Don’t just stick to one technique; mix it up by alternating between licking, sucking, nibbling, and blowing on the nipples. This will keep things interesting and help to keep your partner aroused.
Remember to be gentle when kissing and licking your partner’s nipples; too much pressure can be uncomfortable, so start slow and gradually increase the intensity as your partner responds.
Find the right balance between gentle and firm pressure. She is not a cow, and you don’t want to give the impression that she’s on the milk farm.
Pay attention to your partner’s reactions; they should be letting you know whether they prefer more pressure or less.
Experiment With Different Kisses
There is no one-size-fits-all approach. Everyone is different and has different preferences regarding what turns them on.
Experiment with different kisses, licks, and pressure until you find the right moves to make your partner moan with pleasure. In some cases, you could even give her a nipple orgasm!
Kissing nipples should be fun for both parties involved— don’t take yourselves too seriously and let loose to maximize pleasure!
If something doesn’t work, keep trying other options until it feels good—there’s no single recipe for how each person likes it best.
Cup Each Breasts While Kissing
Using your hands while kissing can be a great way to add extra stimulation.
Gently caress your partner’s breasts with your hands, or use them to hold her close as you kiss. You can also use your fingers to pinch or twist the nipples for added pleasure lightly.
Kiss the Entire Breast, Not Just Her Nipples
Kissing the entire breast, not just the nipples, is an important part of nipple kissing. Always focus on the entire breast first before concentrating on the nipples, and this will help to increase her arousal and make the experience more pleasurable.
Don't Bite, Unless She Asks You
Biting can be a great way to add intensity to nipple play, but it should only be done if your partner specifically requests it.
Start by lightly nibbling on the nipples and then increase the pressure as your partner responds.
If she asks you to bite harder, do so gently and cautiously. Never bite too hard or without her consent, as the nipples are coated with tons of nerve endings that may not respond well to this type of nipple stimulation.
When kissing and licking your partner’s nipples, be mindful of your teeth.
Try Temperature Play
Use an ice cube, menthol, or a warm cloth on the nipples before licking or sucking them.
This will create a sensation of warmth or cold that will send shivers down your partner’s spine.
You can also try alternating between hot and cold temperatures for even more intense sensations. Just make sure to check in with your partner to make sure they’re comfortable with the temperature.
Another interesting technique for stimulating the nipples is warm wax. This kinky move can be a great way to add some extra heat and intensity to your nipple play. Just ensure you talk it over before attempting.
Try Sex Toys
Vibrators, nipple clamps, and suction devices are all great options.
The go-to sex toy for nipple play is nipple clamps, designed to pinch the nipples and increase blood flow.
Vibrators can also be used to stimulate the nipples, as well as other erogenous zones. You can use a standard vibrator that can be used on any area of the body or one specifically designed to wrap around the nipple and stimulate them.
Lastly, suction devices are great for hardening the nipples and increasing blood flow, so they are more sensitive to touch.
Pay Attention to Body Language
Pay attention to your partner’s body language. This will help you determine if they’re enjoying the experience or not.
If they seem tense or uncomfortable, take a break and talk about what feels good. Ask questions like “Does this feel good?” or “Do you want me to go slower?”
Your partner will give you signals when something feels good (eagerness, deep intakes of breath), but equally important are signs that things aren’t fully working (tension in muscles or back muscles).
So make sure that while you’re exploring their body by kissing their nipples, you’re listening closely or watching closely for clues as to what turns them on sexually and cues that something isn’t quite hitting the spot!
Don't Overdo It
Nipple kissing is great, but it should not be the only thing you do to your partner’s body. Spend as much time on your partner’s nipples as she is comfortable, and then switch to something else.
Too much stimulation can cause the nipples to become overly sensitive and painful. Your partner might get bored if you only want to kiss, lick, and suck on her nipples the entire time.
If she is done with nipple play but not ready for penetrative sex, try exploring other erogenous zones, such as her neck, inner thighs, and lower stomach. Kiss those areas, and then proceed south of the border for oral sex if she’s comfortable.
Nipple Kissing Scenario
Now that you know all the right techniques, try this tonight!
Start by kissing your partner’s lips and move down to her neck. Move your hands to the back of her head and gently hold it while you suck and kiss her neck in all the right places. Use your one free hand to trace a pattern down her side or back, going all the way down.
Move from her neck by slowly kissing and working your way down her chest. Once you reach her breasts, start by lightly licking and kissing them. Kiss the entire breast, one at a time.
Then, focus on the nipples. When you reach the nipples, lightly kiss them and gradually increase the intensity. Use your tongue to lick around the areola and then move on to the nipple. Trace a circle around the nipple with the tip of your tongue, and then use the entire tongue to coat the nipple and parts of the areola completely. Get it wet!
If she’s interested, once you warm up her breast, use your teeth to nibble on her nipples.
Give love to each breast equally and an alternative between them. While you kiss one, use your hand and fingers to tease, twist, rub, or pinch the other.
Remember to always pay attention to your partner’s body language and reactions. If she seems uncomfortable, take a break and ask her what she wants or needs.
If she’s really into it, stop using your mouth to stimulate her chest and get her vibrator or nipple clamps for extra stimulation. Attach each clamp one at a time, and then use your mouth to lick and suck the erect nipples while the clamps are on.
When you’re done, start kissing down to her waist and thighs, then proceed to oral sex if she’s into it.
Most guys know that a woman’s breasts are sensitive and can produce nipple orgasms with the right techniques. Kissing them can be extremely pleasurable! Pay attention to body language, experiment with techniques, and avoid overdoing it.
With these tips in mind, you’ll be able to give your partner the pleasure she wants!