Nipple orgasms sound too good to be true. Can someone really climax without having their genitals stimulated? The answer is a resounding yes.
If you want to give yourself or your partner one, we will teach you everything you need to know about nipple sucking, breast massages, sex toys, and of course, nipple orgasms.
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Are Nipple Orgasms Real?
Nipple orgasms are real; better yet, there’s evidence that both men and women can experience them!
The nipples are covered with nerve endings that send messages to the brain when touched, licked, flicked, caressed, or stimulated.
You can have a nipple orgasm because the breasts are an erogenous zone. An erogenous zone is an area of the body that creates sexual excitement and arousal when touched or stimulated. Other well-known zones are the clitoris, thighs, and even neck.
With enough stimulation and the right kind of stimulation, the person can experience a build-up and release similar to a genital orgasm. It’s like imagined genital stimulation, and it works wonders.
Whatever magic a nipple orgasm might be, we can all agree that they are amazing. However, not everyone can have one. Breast cancer, abuse, and certain factors can cause a decrease in nipple sensitivity.
What Do They Feel Like?
No one person experiences an orgasm the same way due to differences in nipple sensitivity. Still, from what we can gather, a nipple orgasm feels entirely different from a G Spot or clitoral orgasm that results from vaginal stimulation.
The sensation builds up slowly until there is a fast, intense release of feel-good hormones.
For some, the feeling might be better than a clitoral or G Spot orgasm; for others, it is comparable to other orgasms but not better.
Ultimately, each person will experience a nipple orgasm slightly differently than others.
Can Every Woman Have Nipple Orgasms?
Technically, yes.
Not every woman has experienced a breast or nipple orgasm, although there is evidence that physically, it is possible.
Unfortunately, the link between orgasms and nipple play is not well-studied. Still, we know that stimulation of the erogenous zones, including the nipples, causes a similar physiological response to stimulation of the genitals.
In 2016, a study found that at least 12% of women have orgasms from stimulating their other erogenous zones. In 2019, researchers confirmed that erogenous zones cause the same brain area to become active as when the genitals are stimulated.
Many women can experience a nipple or breast orgasm, but their specific body and unique circumstances will ultimately determine whether they will have a nipple orgasm.
But don’t give up hope just yet! We have techniques and tips to improve your chances of giving her that first highly sought-after nipple orgasm.
Can Men Have Them Too?
Men can orgasm from nipple stimulation too.
Nipples are also an erogenous zone in men, but whether a man will enjoy having his nipples stimulated is entirely up to him.
A study from 2006 discovered that 82% of women experienced increased sexual arousal when having their nipples stimulated, whereas only 59% of men reported the same. Therefore, men are aroused by nipple play, which can lead to an orgasm. However, women experience more arousal from nipple stimulation.
Unfortunately, nipple play is seen as feminine in many circles. This outdated idea makes many men uncomfortable with nipple play, thus creating mental roadblocks to orgasm.
If you or your male partner are open to receiving nipple play, use any of the techniques detailed below.
It’s a myth that men’s nipples are not as sensitive as women’s, so show yourself or your male partner’s chest some love! Start by gliding over it, avoiding the nipples at first, and then using our rock star techniques for nipple orgasms.
Techniques to Give Your Partner Nipple Orgasms
No one technique will work for every person. Depending on the time of the month, hormonal changes, mental state, and other things affecting the sensitivity of the nipples, your partner may not be able to achieve a nipple orgasm. If using your hands and fingers doesn’t work, try your mouth and sex toys instead. Experiment until you find the right method to make them orgasm.
- Massaging: Apply a warming oil such as sesame or a cooling coconut and glide your hands over each breast. Cup and massage the oil into each breast using both hands. Un-cup and trace your well-oiled fingers over each areola without focusing on the nipples. Start massaging and rubbing the nipples in a circular motion—alternate speed and pace according to their response.
- Flicking: Flick each nipple with your fingers. Use this technique in combination with the pinching, sucking, twisting, or biting techniques mentioned.
- Pinching: Pinch each nipple with your fingers as a part of the breast massage. Pinch and hold for a few seconds, then release. Repeat a few times, then start rubbing or massaging the entire breast.
- Twisting: Twist each nipple gently and then release. Start slow and gently and then increase your intensity according to their response; depending on the person, they may prefer softer movements.
- Kissing: Kiss not only the nipples but the entire breast before transitioning into sucking and biting the nipples.
- Sucking: Suck on each nipple using the techniques described in detail here.
- Biting and Nibbling: Depending on the person's sensitivity, they may not enjoy biting or nibbling, so proceed with caution, especially if you have never tried before. Gently press your teeth against your partner's skin and bite around the breast, areola, and nipples. Alternate between biting and sucking or kissing.
- Playing with temperature: Determine whether you will experiment with cold or heat. If you have ever seen a set of nipples in the cold, you know how well they respond to decreases in temperature. Rub ice cubes over the breast, areola, and nipples. In a circular motion, move the ice cube around each nipple. Incorporate other techniques such as kissing, sucking, and massaging to get the most out of your partner's super erect nipples.
- Turning up the heat: Instead of chilling your partner's nipples, warm them up. Start by using your warm breath, tongue, and mouth to entice your partner's breasts and nipples. Then take hot chocolate, hot wax (if they are okay with intense stimulation), or warming agents and drip, melt, or cover your partner's areola and nipples. If using hot chocolate, use your mouth to lick and suck it up. Use the warming agent in a breast massage. Or flick and peel the hardened wax off your partner's breasts.
- Flogging, whipping, or slapping: Many women enjoy impact play, but ensure your partner is one of them before trying these three techniques. A flogger is a sex toy used on multiple body parts to hit and slap. A whip delivers similar sensations to the body by hitting the skin. Using floggers, whips, or your hands to hit or slap the breasts may be highly arousing to your partner.
How to Give Your Partner a Nipple Orgasm
Determine what technique(s) you will use on your partner. Do they like soft and gentle? Try a massage, kissing, and sucking. Do they enjoy something a little rougher? Try flicking, pinching, biting, or even impact play. Start slow and soft and build up to rougher techniques, if they can handle that, or continue giving them gentle touches until they reach peak arousal.
If you need help figuring out where to start, try this and adjust by adding or subtracting techniques depending on your partner’s needs and desires.
Start by massaging your partner’s breasts. Gently caress and trace your fingers along each breast. Go along the sides and down and around their areola. Gently start rubbing their nipples in a circular motion. If they desire, pinch and twist the nipples as well.
After using your touch to get them warmed up, use your mouth to take things to the next level. Start by kissing up and down each breast. Kiss the areola and then the nipples. Finally, wrap your mouth around each nipple and suck for several seconds. While sucking, try using your tongue to play with the nipples. Then gently bite or nibble on the nipples and the breasts and nipples, and then continue sucking again.
While sucking, use your hands to cup and massage the breasts. Or reach down, put your hand between their legs, and stimulate them in exciting ways.
Continue to suck and massage. If you want to know more about sucking nipples, read this guide. We already wrote a detailed description of all the techniques you need to know to suck each nipple and bring your partner closer to orgasm than they’ve ever been before.
Use the techniques described above to stimulate your partner’s nipples until she reaches climax. Once your partner has reached a high level of arousal, be patient and consistent to help them orgasm.
How to Give Your Partner a Nipple Orgasm With Sex Toys
Sex toys are great for nipple orgasms because they allow you to stimulate your partner’s nipples in a way that would be impossible or challenging without the help of sex toys. Several types of nipple toys are available, including vibrators, wands, and clamps.
This device has two electrodes that stimulate the nipples simultaneously using low levels of electricity. Multiple settings are available such as high, medium, and low, to suit every person.
These clamps attach to the nipples and squeeze them. They come in various sizes and shapes and can be combined with many of the previously described techniques.
Suck your partner’s nipples while clamped, massage their breasts, or use cooling and warming agents to stimulate them. Nipple clamps trap blood in the nipples, keeping them erect and sensitive.
If your partner enjoys having their nipples sucked, they might like this sex toy. A nipple suction device simulates the feeling of having your nipples sucked by a person but keeps the movement consistent. Better yet, the toy can suck both nipples at the same time, whereas a person only has one mouth and cannot.
Nipplettes and other vibrating nipple clamps deliver additional stimulation to the nipples that would be impossible or challenging with a standard nipple clamp set.
A vibrator is a sex toy that produces vibrations for sexual stimulation. A lot of women enjoy using a vibrator on their clitoris, so there’s a good chance that your partner would like to have her nipples vibrated.
A Warburton Wheel is technically not a sex toy, but today, it might as well be as it has grown in popularity as a sex toy.
The small wheel is rolled across the skin, causing a tickling or tingling sensation. For a lot of people, a Warburton Wheel is highly pleasurable. Therefore, use the Warburton Wheel not only on your partner’s nipples but also on their other erogenous zones.
How to Give Yourself a Nipple Orgasm
There’s nothing wrong with self-love. As women and men can experience enhanced arousal and nipple orgasms, there’s no reason not to stimulate your nipples.
Better yet, because you’re stimulating yourself, you will know when it’s time to do something different or if the technique is hitting the spot.
If you’re interested in solo play, start by feeling each breast or chest. Oils and lotions will help and allow your hands to slide over your breast. Spend a few moments just exploring your breasts before focusing on your nipples. Apply a little extra oil or lotion and slowly start rubbing each nipple with your thumbs in a circular motion.
If it’s your first time with nipple play, solo or otherwise, experiment with different touches until you find one that suits you the best. Once you find the right one, be patient and keep touching your breasts and nipples.
If nothing happens, add more stimulation, and if you have a partner nearby, don’t be afraid to involve them as well. Ask them to touch specific parts of your body while you play with your nipples or grind against them; it’s all the same! As long as you are nearing sexual climax, keep doing what feels good.
General Tips for Nipple Orgasms
Not everyone will have a nipple orgasm, although technically, they can.
Start slowly and build up to more intense stimulation over time. Listen to your partner’s body and response, and allow that to dictate your next move.
Here are a few general tips to bring your partner closer to their first nipple orgasm.
Does she seem bored? Hopefully not, but maybe she is.
Not every woman likes having their nipples stimulated without other forms of stimulation. She may need you to kiss her while playing with her nipples, leaving long trails of kisses down her neck, over her shoulder, and wherever else you can reach, depending on your sex position.
She may want you to lick her nipples while your hand is between her thighs, giving her clitoris some love.
Likewise, she may want a combination of nipple play and anal sex. The combinations and desires are endless! If you want to stand there and guess the exact combination of moves that will cause her extreme pleasure, go right ahead! But you’d be merely wasting your time.
While sucking each nipple, take a movement to ask if she likes what you’re doing, if she wants you to change pressure or speed, or if she wants you to stop altogether and move on to using your mouth for oral sex instead.
This might sound familiar. You rip off her bra, kiss each breast a few times, lick her nipples for a few seconds, and then move on to something else, like kissing her lips or standing there while she takes off your pants.
If either of these situations or similar ones sound like you, it’s no wonder she has never had a nipple orgasm.
Nipple orgasms tend to build up more slowly than vaginal orgasms or other orgasms, so patience and ample time to focus on the breast is required for an orgasm.
If she seems bored or uncomfortable, try something else. If not, keep doing what you’re doing until you physically cannot anymore. If that’s the case, stop sucking her nipples, give your mouth a break, and play with them using your fingers or hands instead. Or pause to grab a sex toy and use that instead.
Get the perfect mood and make the atmosphere right before focusing on your techniques.
Ideally, you both should be in a stress-free environment with soft and dim lighting, good bedding, and maybe some music. Here are a few more ideas:
- Take a bath together first and cuddle inside the tub. Wrap your arms around her and play with her nipples while you both relax inside the tub.
- Get her to dress up in sexy lingerie before nipple play. Ask her to show you her assets in the lingerie before slowly taking it off and playing with her breasts before you touch her.
- Go one step further and purchase a latex suit. Latex sex suits are fairly standard in BDSM. You can find all sorts of outfits that highlight different body parts, strategically covering some areas while leaving others exposed. Purchase a latex suit that exposes the breasts but covers the remaining areas of her upper body.
While sucking nipples may feel great, do you know what will feel even better? Sucking her nipples while adding in genital stimulation, such as rubbing her clit or playing with her G Spot. What about anal sex and nipple play?
The breasts are perfect by themselves, but she may find the experience ten times better and more orgasmic if you use a combination of moves.
A woman needs consistent movements to orgasm. If you find the right spot with your tongue, keep up a steady pace and keep playing with that part of her body.
If flicks of your tongue get her going, keep up the flicks. Keep doing that if it’s sucking or circular movements with your tongue.
Many men make the mistake of speeding up once they find their lady’s sweet spot. Be consistent, not faster or slower.
You may get better results if, instead of sucking her nipples, you pour oil onto them and massage them with your hands and fingers.
Instead of standard massage oil, take something with a tingling agent, like peppermint or menthol.
If she wants something a little more extreme, light a candle and allow the warm wax to drip slowly over each breast. Temperature, a topic we already touched on above, is a great way to play with different sensations and stimulate the nipples with minimal effort.
Maybe she needs a few sex toys to reach the Big O.
Nipple clamps and vibrating wands are great choices. If you aren’t sure what these toys are, don’t worry, we cover them in the section below.
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What to Do If They Need More Stimulation
Some people experience nipple orgasms with only nipple stimulation — lucky bastard! But others need a combination of moves to have an orgasm. If your partner is not climaxing, despite trying every technique on the list, it might be because they need nipple stimulation and something else.
Try stimulating her nipples and genitals at the same time. With one hand, caress each breast and then play with her nipple using your thumb. Alternatively, go hands-free and use your mouth to kiss each breast and suck on her nipples. Use your hand to give her a pussy massage or stimulate her G Spot until she climaxes.
Don’t limit yourself to your hands. During sex, play with her breasts and suck her nipples as you thrust. Any position where you are face-to-face is good, but cowgirl and lap dance are great options if you want to free up both hands.
If your partner enjoys anal, use one hand to play with the entrance of the anal cavity instead. Put your index finger in your mouth to get it wet, or put a little lube on your finger first. Take a finger (the wetter, the better) and rub the entrance in a circular motion before slowly putting your wet finger inside and rubbing around while sucking its nipples.
Another simple yet effective technique is to suck or play with her nipples while choking or holding your partner down. Dominance and submission, in itself, is sexy! So paired with nipple stimulation, you’re bound to bring at least one more person closer to climax. Of course, be sure your partner is down to be choked or manhandled before trying it.
Troubleshooting: Why She Can't Have a Nipple Orgasm
Many women want nipple orgasms, but it might be difficult to get them to the point of climax, despite following all these tips.
If she can’t reach the Big O, try making a few adjustments, and see if you can get your partner any closer to achieving orgasm.
If your partner can’t orgasm, try taking things a little slower. Too much stimulation is just as bad as too little, and it might be overwhelming, overpowering, or even panic-inducing instead of euphoric and pleasant.
Instead of grabbing, squeezing, pinching, or biting their nipples, add gentle caress and build up to more intense stimulation. Or ditch the intense stimulation altogether and blow on their nipples, kiss them gently, gently caress them with your fingers.
On the opposite end of the spectrum, maybe you’re too slow and gentle for your partner’s liking. Instead of gently kissing, caressing, and blowing, try pinching their nipples, adding a few bites, and turning up the pace one or two notches. Get those hands and fingers moving over their breasts and nipples.
Your partner might not reach orgasm because you did not give them enough time. Not everyone orgasms in less than a minute. Your partner might need extended stimulation, occurring over five or more minutes to orgasm.
If that’s the case, it’s no wonder they haven’t orgasmed yet! Take your time and allow them to become engrossed in the experience fully.
Depending on the person, they might need different stimulation techniques to orgasm. Sure, they might enjoy kissing and biting, but they need a combination of pinching, biting, kissing, and caressing to orgasm.
In this case, start slow and soft with gentle kisses and caresses. Build up to more intense stimulation and keep building until they eventually orgasm.
The menstrual cycle affects more than her uterus. During menstruation, your partner might have overly sensitive nipples that do not respond well to aggressive or soft stimulation. Many women experience sore and painful breasts at the start of their period. During this time of the month, it’s probably best to try something else to give them sexual pleasure.
Not every woman will experience sore or heightened nipple sensitivity nipples during her period, so it’s always best to discuss with your partner and get a better understanding of how their body responds to hormonal changes.
Conclusion
Nipple orgasms are real; technically, everyone can have one with the right combination of moves and patience. If you’re interested in learning more about nipples and everywhere else on her lovely body, subscribe to our YouTube channel or click here to read more articles.
