Are you a shooter or a dripper?
You know what I’m talking about. Sometimes you orgasm and it looks like your cum is made of lead–it just falls straight down. You try to pull out and blast it all over your wife, but instead, it drops onto her stomach.
Don’t worry, I’ve had my share of dribblers, where the cum just oozes out. Over time, I’ve learned to recognize what creates a good cum-shot.
I may be able to shoot massive loads, but for every big load I’ve dropped, there’s also a finale that’s been (frankly) underwhelming.
Today I’ll break down my observations, so you can learn how to shoot cum further just like a porn star.
How to Cum Further
The first factor that determines how far your cum goes is volume. By volume, I mean how much cum you shoot.
It’s simple science. Imagine you have a balloon. If you fill it up with a gallon of water, then squeeze it, water will explode everywhere. If you only fill it up with a cup-full, the water will fall out of the balloon with zero force. We don’t want that.
Instead, we want a massive volume of cum to shoot out of your penis. When there’s more volume, just like the balloon, your dick has to use more force to push the cum out of your penis.
When there’s more semen in your testicles, your penis creates more back-pressure to push it out. It’s like putting more air in a tire, to build up pressure. More volume = more pressure = further cum-shot.
The way to increase the semen amount is straightforward: if you can, do not have sex every day.
Wait a minute, what do you mean? I should not have sex all the time even though it feels so good to ejaculate every time?
Well, the problem is that if you have sex multiple times throughout the day, your sperm numbers will continue to stay relatively low. You will not shoot blanks, but if the body does not have the time to recuperate the losses after the most recent fucking session, do not expect to cum far, or produce enough sperm to satisfy your girl every time.
It might be difficult to keep your hands off your partner, but if your goal is to shoot cum further, you will need to make some sacrifices. There is no helping how our bodies work.
At the same time, if you show some restraint, expect to have one of the best climaxes in your life. You must have felt something great sometime before, right? When you had not had sex for a while but finally got into bed with someone?
Perhaps it has been too long and you have forgotten how this sensation feels, but take a couple of days not having sex, and you will thank yourself for finding some patience. Both you and your partner will be satisfied.
Stop masturbating every day
Porn addiction is a real problem. Sure, there are plenty of men who do not get laid and stick to pornography to satisfy their needs. But what about those who have been in a relationship but still jack off while watching professional performers at work?
Well, there is an argument to be made about how jacking off before you have sex later clears up your mind and makes you last longer in bed. However, this does not help with the semen volume and you may find yourself dripping jizz instead of producing healthy loads.
The solution is simple – don’t jack off. It differs from person to person, but try methods to stop your porn addiction. If you are too deep, you may need to seek professional help, but for starters, try:
- blocking porn sites that you visit so you are not tempted to open the internet browser and start beating your meat
- clearing your room and getting rid of porn magazines (yeah, those still exist) and adult DVDs
- keeping yourself with other hobbies, like video games, reading, or whatever else you find interesting
Drinks lots of water
Dehydration could be another reason why you have been unhappy with the distance of shooting your loads.
According to research in 2013, up to 29% of guys have semen that qualifies as being clinically thick.
Hold on, is that a good or a bad thing? Isn’t thick sperm what you should strive for to cum further instead of dripping? Well, too thick is not a healthy sign, and it can be a cause of bigger problems, such as issues with your prostate or the seminal vesicles.
But getting back to drinking plenty of water, it should not come as a surprise. Semen is composed primarily of water.
If your body is not getting enough fluids, it will not give semen its due amount of necessary liquids to maintain proper volume levels and texture.
You must have had a jerkoff session or sex after a night of drinking? Have you noticed the quality of your sperm when you have a hangover? The reason is obvious – you are dehydrated as fuck. Try cumming the next time you are hungover and you will know what I am talking about.
Get aroused as much as you can
This one is pretty simple, but still gets overlooked quite often. If you are not aroused to a certain level, do not expect to produce satisfying loads. Arousal, orgasm, and ejaculation are not things you can control voluntarily. These three are your body’s response to a stimulus.
If a stimulus is weak, your body will know it and react accordingly. Think back to the times you had sex.
Have you ever had intercourse with someone you did not really find attractive but still wanted to be with someone? Or what about a random hookup from Tinder that made you feel so bad after the deed that got out of the bed first thing in the morning and left her house without ever wanting to come back again? It is likely that your body was not that into these things, and was unable to produce proper loads.
But what about those times when seeing a chick is enough to get an erection, and you were lucky enough to score? Or if the two of you were so into it that both you and the partner reached climax without realizing what was happening?
Poor arousal means poor ejaculation, so do not be surprised to fail your goal of shooting cum far if you are not that attracted to your partner.
Get your Zzzz’s
Overall health is directly tied to how far you shoot your cum. If you’re stressed, exhausted, and under the weather, you won’t shoot much. However, if you’re healthy, your cock will be a cum cannon, blasting everywhere.
Specifically, you have to get your Z’s: zzzz’s as in sleep and zinc.
Sleep is important for pretty much everything health-related. It decreases stress, rebuilds muscle, and improves blood flow throughout the body.
See, sleeplessness impacts every facet of your life. When you’re chronically tired, your body only performs what’s necessary for survival. Unfortunately, shooting a multi-rope cum shot is not deemed “necessary.”
When you’re having sex while tired, your body will be focused on one thing: not sex, but sleep. No matter how much coffee you drink, you can’t fool your body into being healthy.
Speaking of which, even if you sleep well, health is still important for shooting cum further. The healthier your body is, the more blood you pump through your arteries, the stronger you shoot your load. It’s simple.
Go to the gym, get some sleep, and eat your vegetables.
To take health to the next level, take zinc supplements. Zinc is so important, I think it should be taken by every man in the world.
Zinc has been shown to increase testosterone, sperm count…AND semen volume. This makes it the ultimate nutrient for men who are having lots of sex (like you) and want to shoot their load further.
I don’t usually recommend supplements, but zinc is a definite exception. It’s that good.
You could get zinc naturally by eating a lot of vegetables, but it’s pretty hard to get supplement-level dosing from eating vegetables. My suggestion: do both. Take the zinc supplement, and eat foods rich in zinc.
Work Your Muscles
No, we already talked about going to the gym, but now I’m talking about your other muscles…
Shooting your cum far depends on the strength of your kegel muscles. For those who don’t know, these are the muscles surrounding the base of your penis that control the flow in and out of the urethra. One of their jobs is to stop the flow of pee/semen in/out, but their other job is to squeeze and force semen out.
When you cum and your cock starts throbbing, that’s the PC muscles working.
You can practice Kegels exercises to last longer, stop your orgasm, dry orgasm, or just improve blood flow. They’re a great all-around exercise I recommend for every guy.
To practice these exercises, (specifically for shooting sperm further) practice squeezing your kegel for as long as possible. Don’t try to do reps, just try to do one rep that’s very challenging.
If you don’t know how to exercise properly, all you have to do is this. Go to the bathroom and pee. Then, use the muscles in your cock to stop peeing. That’s the kegel muscle. The same muscle that stops pee also makes you cum further.
Practice this every other day, and you’ll be blasting bigger loads in no time.
To use this in real-time, squeeze your kegel as hard as you can when you’re about to come. Next time you watch porn, take note of how the actors work their penises during orgasm. Most of the time, you can see their penises moving up and down.
That’s a strong muscle at work. Build that kind of strength, and you’ll be shooting ropes in no time.
Edging is another method to ejaculate more and increase cum velocity. Before you get close to climax, you stop before cumming, wait for a bit, and start the stimulation again. In other words, you are getting closer to the edge and back off before blowing the load.
Plenty of guys manage to dribble as much as a teaspoon of sperm if they do not edge.
The reason why edging works is that the process allows the prostate to produce extra fluid. And by fluid, I mean not the semen, but what is known as “filler” or “buffer fluid.”
Edging also helps you get in the mood both physically and mentally. The more aroused you are, the stronger your muscle contractions, propelling the cum and allowing you to shoot further.
Every guy is different
Your body stores semen. However, we all have different bodies, and what works for one guy may not work for another.
If you have time to try different variations, do not hesitate and experiment. You may find that storing your semen for two or three days is enough to restore the body and produce great loads that will fly from your dick like a bullet and may leave your partner partly-blind (be careful with this, though, and I am being serious).
Others may need as much as one week to reach the optimal form, while some men need only 24 hours. Again, find out what works for you.
How To Satisfy Her
Now that you know how to shoot your cum across the room, you might be asking how to use your ejaculation to please your wife or girlfriend.
I’ve got good news and bad news…the bad news is that your ejaculation will NOT satisfy your woman. No matter how big, how far, or how strong your cum-shot is, it’s only a small piece of the sexual experience.
Sex (especially to women) is so much more. It’s an out-of-body experience that brings two people together and makes them one.
There are endless topics about women’s pleasure and many personal preferences to each woman and how she desires to be satisfied.
BUT, if there is one thing that will satisfy ANY WOMAN out there, it would be giving her orgasm every time you have sex!
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