Make her constantly think about you even when you’re nowhere in sight when you learn how to eat pussy like a champ!
Your efforts won’t go unnoticed because any man willing to devote an evening of fun to his partner will be, without a doubt, one of the best she’s ever had.
Eating pussy and giving her insanely powerful, unforgettable orgasms is straightforward, and any man can do it.
We’re about to provide you with the pussy eating lesson you’ve always wanted but have been unable to find until now, divided into easy steps.
Table of Contents
Female Anatomy 101
Step one to learning how to eat pussy is understanding that the pussy is more than just her clitoris.
In fact, studies have shown that vulva owners can orgasm without having their clitoris directly stimulated.
Although we don’t recommend leaving the clit out to dry, it is not the most important part of oral sex.
Build up anticipation and enjoy the five-course chef’s kiss meal that is her pussy. We discuss in detail in the following sections how you can eat pussy like it’s the last supper without even touching the clit.
So if we’re advocating you eat pussy without nose-diving for the clit, what do you eat? Most guys know the clit and lips exist, but what else is there?
A woman’s vulva (the smart people’s word for pussy) is the clitoral hood, clitoris, labia majora, labia minora, urethral opening, vagina, and vaginal opening — more than one of these spots are pleasure centers!
The Clitoral Hood
The clitoral hood covers and protects the clitoris like the foreskin protects your penis. You could pull this tiny nub of skin back to expose more of the clitoris.
Fun fact! Maybe some sex educator or documentary has taught you this already, but all embryos start as a female in the womb. Literally, what developed as your foreskin became her clitoral hood during development.
Clitoris
The clitoris is a wish-bone-shaped, hyper-sensitive pleasure center filled with nerve endings in most women. The clitoris is deceiving because it’s more than what meets the eye. The clitoris extends further back into her body and is approximately four inches (10 cm) long.
Labia Majora
The pussy lips, what you might call them, are the two lip-like folds that cover and protect the vaginal opening and clitoris. The labia majora is the outer and more prominent lips.
Labia Minora
The little labia (minora) are the two smaller lip-like folds tucked away under the labia majora. In many women, the labia minora is barely visible, but it’s pronounced and prominent in others.
Urethral Opening
The urethra connects the bladder to the outside world. In men, the urethra extends much further due to the length of the penis, but in women, it’s quite short (one of the reasons women are more prone to UTIs). This little guy sits just below the clitoris but is hidden by the labia.
Vagina
The vagina is misnomered as the vulva by both men and women. However, the vagina is only the internal part of her genitals. You can see the vaginal opening but not the actual vagina.
Vaginal Opening
It’s the entrance of the vagina. Stimulating this area is highly arousing, especially if she’s soaking wet already. Before fingering her (which we don’t recommend. Do this instead!), stroke the vaginal opening in a circular motion using one finger.
Mons Pubis
This is the area that sits at the top of the vagina. It’s flat and sometimes covered in hair. Although she won’t get much pleasure from having her mons pubis stimulated, you can rest your hand against it while stroking and licking her clit.
There’s much more to female anatomy than this! We’ve only touched the surface. If you want to know more about internal female anatomies such as the fallopian tubes, ovaries, and uterus, read this article. We did not include those structures here because they will not help you become better at oral sex.
Step 1: Start With Her Mind
Women can be insecure.
Many women are self-conscious about having guys go down on them. Some power-hungry ladies will climb right on your face and perch like there is no tomorrow, but others need a little coaching and reassurance.
Self-consciousness might come from having a shitty sexual experience or hearing too many jokes about female anatomy.
Whatever the reason, you’ll have to help her get over that if you want her to enjoy oral sex. Your oral sex skills will not get you far if the girl can not sit back, relax, and enjoy the experience.
Don’t take it personally. Just tell her you care about her and want to eat her out for her benefit and yours!
She Needs Her Mind Stimulated
Most women can not just immediately jump into sex with no warm-up or no mental stimulation.
A woman needs a lot of foreplay, anticipation, and sexual tension before she is ready for you to go down on her.
Sure, your partner might find the experience enjoyable without all that, but she definitely won’t be super horny, soaking wet, and craving your dick afterward if you cut corners.
Women need to feel unique, beautiful and cared for. She won’t fully enjoy the experience if she thinks you’ve done this with every chick on the block.
She certainly won’t enjoy it if she thinks some other girl will be walking into your apartment immediately after she walks out of it.
She might be a one-night stand you will never speak to again, but she should not feel like that when you’re going down on her. Make her feel cherished and special.
Step 2: Add Some Foreplay
Foreplay is not optional — it’s vital to make her dripping wet before cunnilingus.
Try dirty talking. Tell her all the sexy things you want to do to her. Be very descriptive and ensure you start sooner rather than later.
We wrote a master’s guide to dirty talking, so check that out if your oral skills are lacking as much as your oral sex skills. Also, try one of these other suggestions.
Make It a Date
Take her on a date before bringing her home with you. Make it a special occasion by lighting candles, putting on some music, and setting the house up so that as soon as your partner enters the door, she can sense that tonight will be different.
You might be the first man that has ever brought candles and decorated a room for her, which means she 100% will never forget you. You’re already on your way to being the best lover she’s ever had without even touching her.
Don't Skip Those Erogenous Zones
Many guys rip off their clothes, kiss her, maybe put their fingers inside, and dive into the pussy.
Wham, bam, and done! If you’ve ever done this, you’re probably not doing too well in the bedroom.
Women have a lot of erogenous zones that you can touch, caress, grab, or spank to get them going before you ever go down on her.
Skipping the erogenous zones is a big mistake. Unless she’s looking for a five-minute quickie, your partner will not be horny enough or wet enough to enjoy sex fully.
A woman’s most important erogenous zone is her brain, and she can get fully turned on and super soaking wet without a single touch if you engage her mind. We wrote a detailed description of how to use foreplay to drive her wild here.
The scalp is super sensitive, so give her a head massage or gently pull it from the root to tease and play with her. Put a smile on your face, so she knows you’re messing around. She’ll feel free to tease you by gently pushing you away, although it’s clear she doesn’t want you to stop!
Some women are sensitive to having their necks touched. Start slowly by gently caressing her neck. Push her hair back or lightly hold her neck while you kiss. If she needs rough, give her more passionate kisses paired with choking.
The waist is extremely sensitive and highly pleasurable, and all you need to do is lightly caress your fingers and hands down her waist or grab and hold her in place. Tracing your fingers in a circle along her lower back can send tingles down her spine. Turn her around and caress her breasts before playing with her nipples.
Give her a booty massage. Doesn’t that sound sexy? Spank her if she’s into that, and take the opportunity to grab some oils and massage her backside when you have her lying across your lap or on the bed. Finally, use your warm breath to hover over her thighs before going down for a kiss or little nibble.
Step 3: Get Into Position
Don’t be afraid to try out different positions while down on her. There are countless ones and locations to eat pussy that we have not touched on in this article. The reality is that you’re only limited by your creativity and how far you’re willing to take things!
Ask her to lie on the end of the bed with a pillow under her for comfort. While she’s at the edge of the bed with her legs spread, get down on your knees and eat her out. Insert a finger or two to stimulate all her spots, discussed above, as you go down on her.
The Flapjack
Both of you lie flat on the bed. Her on her back, and you on your stomach. Open your mouth, reach out your tongue and begin licking her entire vulva.
Always consider adding a finger to stimulate her G Spot while eating her out. Remember! Save the clit for last. Tease the hell out of her before even considering the clit.
Women On Top
Let her ride your face. Encourage her to let go and go wild. Let her know that this is something you want just as much as she does.
When a woman feels that her partner is really into it, she will enjoy the experience more. When she’s on top of your face, grab her thighs or wrap your hands around her waist. Consider playing with her ass while she’s on top of you.
Sixty-Nine
Ask her to get on top of you so that her pussy is above your face, and she can go down and play with your balls while sucking you off.
If sixty-nine gets boring, do it in reverse. Instead of you being on the bottom, she will. Let her relax on a pillow while you thrust into her mouth and eat her pussy. Lick while playing with her G Spot or using one or two fingers to play with the entrance of her ass.
While she’s in position, give her a rim job. Watch how she reacts! Many ladies find rimjobs just as or even more pleasurable than cunnilingus. Ask her before eating her ass because she might not be into it.
Get Kinky
Tie her to the bed with a spreader bar, so she can’t close her legs.
A spreader bar can be purchased for either the hands or feet and locks them into a fixed position, preventing the person from closing their legs and giving you easier access to all her spots.
Tables
Why limit oral sex to just the bed? Ask her to sit on the edge of the kitchen countertop or table, put a pillow down on the floor and kneel while she is in front of you, legs spread wide open.
You can also use massage tables, outdoor lawn tables, pool tables, and anything else your imagination can come up with, as long as it has a flat surface.
Step 4: Use These Pussy Eating Techniques
Porn videos might have given you the impression that you need to grab her by the legs, pull her towards you, and drive your head between her thighs as if the house was ablaze and you needed her moisture to put out the fire.
Although there are times when more vigorous and intense oral sex is required, it’s usually not the first technique you should use on a woman unless she’s really into that.
If it’s your first time with her, start slower. Consider putting a pillow under her to lift and reposition her pelvis or for added comfort.
Allow her to put her legs in a position that’s comfortable for her. She might need her legs pushed slightly together to get the most pleasure or be comfortable for her body.
Kiss her whole body until she begs for you to lick her. Engage those other erogenous zones before even considering touching her pussy.
Make her keep her panties on until she’s begging you to take them off and they are wet enough to stick to the ceiling. This will lead to more intense orgasms for yourself and her.
Finally, lick everything!
The anatomy of a vulva is much more than her clitoris. Get down there and kiss and lick everything you possibly can.
When learning to eat pussy, prepare to get your tongue ready for some serious exercise. We recommend two methods for getting her soaking wet with just your tongue.
FLAT AS A BOARD
Open your mouth and flatten out your tongue to lick from her vaginal opening up to her clit. Don’t focus on any particular part of her body; allow your tongue to move over her.
This method is also excellent for rim jobs. Ask her to get into a doggy-style position, open your mouth wide, and lick her ass with a flat tongue. Lick up from the vagina to the ass.
SUCKING
Don’t just lick the clit. Suck on it! The clitoral hood covers the clitoris, so get your lips around her clitoris and gently suck on it. Place your top lip on the top of her clitoris and your bottom lip wrapped around the bottom half.
Or use your fingers to gently pull back the clitoral hood (the female version of the foreskin) and apply pressure to her clitoris with your tongue without the hood covering it. This can be intense for most but highly enjoyable.
Suck on it for a few seconds, paying close attention to her reaction.
THE PEN POINT
Use just the tip of your tongue to position it over the clit. Like the point of a pen, direct it to one specific area. With only the tip, move it over the clitoris in whatever direction seems to cause her the most pleasure.
Start Slow, Add More Pressure
Start by kissing everything — her inner thighs, lips, and clitoris. To properly eat pussy, start slow and adjust your intensity and pressure according to how she responds.
She might love soft flicks of your tongue, or she might need to feel you suck on her clit so hard it feels like a mini-vacuum cleaner is down there pulling on it.
But you should always start gently, especially if you don’t know the girl well.
Watch Her Reactions
This ties in with getting feedback, which we discuss below. Be mindful of her body language and reactions. When you hit certain spots, does she moan or stay silent? This might sound obvious, but some men get so caught up in the moment that they forget someone else is in the room with them.
Keep an eye on her face and body reactions as you go down on her. Getting feedback is not only verbal; it’s non-verbal too.
Use Reinforcement
Tell your partner how incredible she is repeatedly. Some women are insecure about their bodies and need positive reinforcement to feel their best in the bedroom.
Your partner might find hearing how sexy she is arousing, and you can get her much more excited and wetter by showing her how much you love going down and licking her sweet pussy.
You can give reinforcement verbally, “You’re so fucking sexy, “You taste so fucking good,” or non-verbally by moaning, grunting, being breathy, and eating her out like your life goddamn depended on it.
Make Her Orgasm By...
While going down on a woman, many men mistakenly alter their technique as she is getting ready to orgasm. This situation might sound familiar to you. She screams, “I’m about to cum!” Instead of continuing with what you’re doing, you speed up.
Just like that, the orgasm is gone.
Instead of speeding up while eating her out, continue at the same pace that got her to the brink of orgasm unless she begs you to go harder or faster. You’re already giving her what she needs, so there is no need to start changing things up.
Lastly, Orgasm Denial
When she gets close to orgasm, tell her not to cum. Many women enjoy dominance and submission in the bedroom. When she tells you she wants to cum, in a stern voice, tell her, “Not until I tell you to.”
Get Feedback
You won’t know what your partner truly likes and needs without feedback! Not all women feel comfortable or sexually liberated enough to speak up without prompting. She might not enjoy the experience but is too timid to say anything. She might want to try something different but doesn’t want to make you feel bad. There are plenty of reasons women do not openly speak out in the bedroom.
Encourage her to express and explore her sexuality by asking her questions and letting her know that you want to pleasure her and are curious about what she thinks.
You might worry about being seen as weak by asking questions in the bedroom. You want her to see you as an A+ lover, but every A+ lover was once an A+ student who asked many questions and was not afraid to make mistakes to improve.
Step 5: Try These Easy Pussy Eating Combinations
Combinations are designed to engage not only her clit, but multiple areas of her body, such as her G Spot, anus, or nipples, with tongue, fingers, and toys.
Women can orgasm from clitoral stimulation, but did you know that inside the vagina, you’ll find the enigmatic G Spot, A Spot, D Spot, and Internal C Spot?
While eating pussy, stimulate one or more of these spots with your fingers to make a woman orgasm multiple times.
G Spot: It’s about a knuckle and a half inside the vagina. It’s bumpy and on the upper wall. Stimulate it with your finger or a sex toy while licking her clitoris, and you will get amazing results!
Pussy eating is ten times better when you incorporate her other spots. Use one or two fingers to pull upwards and towards yourself in a beckoning motion while eating pussy.
Wrap your lips fully around her clit and suck on it as you would suck on a nipple while playing with her G Spot.
A Spot: It’s just past the G Spot, along the upper wall of the vagina. It’s not as pleasure-inducing as the G Spot or clitoris (C spot), but she will enjoy your effort to go deep inside and pleasure her properly.
D Spot: It’s pretty far back in the vagina and downward. Some women will not enjoy this sensation because it pushes on the anal canal. That does not mean you shouldn’t give it a shot! Start slow and see how she reacts.
While eating her out, insert your finger and press downwards in a beckoning motion. Adjust pressure and speed according to her response and body language.
Internal C Spot: The external C-Spot is the clit, but the internal C-Spot is found way back inside the vagina in a little area known as the cervix. Lightly rubbing your finger in a circular motion is extremely pleasurable. The cervix is a small circular area at the end of the womb.
Why stop at just the pussy? A lot of ladies love having their ass licked in addition to having their pussy adored.
A word of the wise for this: be careful with the direction. You should never insert a finger into her ass and then into her pussy. You don’t want to introduce harmful bacteria by going ass to the vagina.
If you’re worried about hygiene, try dental dams. Dental dams have found new life outside the dentist’s office as an oral sex barrier. The sensation is slightly different from oral sex without it, but your partner will still feel your touch while using it.
If your partner is an anal type of gal, she’ll go crazy over this one. Lick her ass in a circular motion with your tongue. If she’s petite, grab her hips, lift her upwards, and go to town on her.
The perineum, known as the “taint,” “grundel,” or even “gooch,” is the small space between the genitals and anus. When stimulated with the tongue, the sensation can be pleasurable and is similar to tickling.
Step 6: Advanced Pussy Eating Combos
Our advanced pussy eating combinations take things one step further by adding sex toys, kink, and more stimulation to help her reach the coveted Big O!
Sex toys are a hack to ensure any woman has a great night. These are the must-own sex toys: vibrating egg, Hitachi wand, standard butt plug, vibrating butt plug, and anal training kit.
We call this one the Harry Pussy Potter. Give your tongue a rest! Hold a Magic Wand to her clit while you play and stimulate her G Spot with your finger. After a few minutes, continue cunnilingus.
If your partner enjoys anal, insert a vibrating butt plug into her ass before proceeding to cunnilingus. This trick is great because you will be able to feel the vibrations during sex as well. If she’s new to anal, start slow with an anal sex training kit that contains anal butt plugs of various sizes.
Another technique we recommend, the egg surprise, involves inserting a vibrating butt plug and pussy egg into your partner for double stimulation while giving her cunnilingus.
There are numerous ways you can combine oral sex with kink. This is on the advanced list because you might want to check out our guide to rough sex first and take a shopping trip to purchase all your new sex toys.
Push your partner against the wall, demand that she spread her legs or push her thighs apart, and tell her what a dirty girl she is. Eat her pussy while she’s pressed against a wall, and you kneel in front of her.
Purchase a sex swing, and secure your partner into it. Start by eating her pussy before transitioning into vaginal sex in the swing.
As mentioned, spreader bars are fantastic beginner tools for exploring your dominant or submissive side. You might also be interested in handcuffing your partner to the bedpost and eating her pussy until she begs you to stop. Ropes and Shibari might also be an option for highly skilled couples.
Kinky Sex Toy Recommendations:
- Sex Swing
- Spreader Bar
- Handcuffs
- Ropes
- Blindfold
Pain is not everyone’s cup of tea, so ensure she’s interested before attempting, and always check in, ensuring you have not gone too far. We recommend floggers, belts, or paddles on the ass, and inner thighs might be highly arousing her and get her soaking wet before you’ve even touched her with your fingers or tongue!
Push her down onto the bed and tell her to wait with her ass in the air and count to 100. Give her a few lashes and then kiss her ass and pussy once it’s nice and red.
Finally, make her squirt while eating her out. Although most women can squirt, it takes time and practice to learn, so we’re putting this last in the advanced combination section. This squirting tutorial should help.
Ask your partner to go to the bathroom before starting, as she should have an empty bladder. Stimulate her G-Spot with a lot of pressure.
When she thinks she’s going to pee, tell her to relax and let it go. She might need a lot of stimulation to squirt, so don’t be afraid to use a G Spot Wand or be forceful with it — she won’t break.
Our “Eat, Spray, Love” technique will have your partner begging for more! Start eating her pussy to get her wet and warmed up, then make her squirt. After squirting, transition into vaginal sex. Repeat as many times as you can!
Troubleshooting and Mistakes You Must Avoid
When you don’t know what you’re doing, it’s easy to make mistakes.
Women know when you don’t want to give them oral sex.
Imagine there’s a woman, and she’s randomly licking your penis. She doesn’t seem interested and is moving her head up and down. You can tell she’s counting down the seconds until she can stop. Would you enjoy that experience? Probably not.
The same principle applies to women: only eat her pussy if you want to eat her out!
Men that do not want to eat pussy, should not eat pussy! It’s that simple. Y
ou are missing out on a golden opportunity to pleasure your partner, so you should probably investigate why you aren’t interested in oral sex. Until the day comes when you wake up and can’t wait to dive into the pussy, don’t
You're Still Using ABCs
Licking pussy does not require you to recite the ABCs. Firstly, it doesn’t feel good for many women, and secondly, the movements are too inconsistent.
To give her powerful orgasms, you need to be consistent and maintain the same rhythm.
When you do the ABCs, you hit the spot she likes. Let’s say it’s letter B. She really enjoys that particular movement, but you only do it for 0.0005 of a second before moving on to C, D, and E.
Women need consistent movement to have intense orgasms. When you hit the spot she likes, keep hitting it until she tells you to stop, cums, or your tongue is so tired you have to tap out of this round.
DO THIS INSTEAD
One woman might need swift and intense movement right off the bat to get going, and the other might only need light flicks of your tongue to make her soaking wet and ready to orgasm.
Every girl is so different that you can not apply the same techniques that worked on your ex to your new partner.
Explore her clit instead of doing the ABCs. Try different movements, especially if it’s your first time going down on her. Ask for feedback by saying slower/faster and harder/softer.
If she’s too busy moaning to speak, continue with what you’re doing because you’re doing it right.
The Speed Racer
No woman wants a speed racer 100% of the time: high-powered, high-energy, and get in there and out as quickly as possible. Sometimes she craves force and intensity, but it won’t be all the time.
Take your time, and adjust your tongue’s speed and pressure according to how she moves and what she says.
Don’t be disappointed if it takes a long time. Some women won’t cum immediately and instead need prolonged stimulation.
Trying to Force the Big O
Orgasms are fan-fucking-tastic. You might be someone who dreams of the day a woman screams your name in absolute ecstasy, legs shaking, heavy breathing, and juices dripping down your bedsheets.
If you can achieve that, good for you, but remove this mindset of I have to make her cum. The truth is, you don’t!
This might be hard to believe, but most women would enjoy a full-body experience, romance, and true intimacy more than orgasms.
Plus, she probably has a toy in her closet or bedside table, and she doesn’t truly need you to orgasm.
Also, she can see straight through you. She knows you’re rushing down between her legs for an ego boost, to return favors, or satisfy her enough to want to do other things in the bedroom. She knows, and when she knows, she’ll have a hard time orgasming.
Think of it this way. A guy walks up to you, puts a gun to your head, and tells you to cum into a cup. Unless near-death experiences are an adrenaline-filled turn-on for you, you probably will have issues getting it up and cumming — the same thing for her.
Not that you’re physically putting a gun to her head (at least we hope not), but mentally you are. When she feels she has to orgasm, then the experience is no longer fun. It’s a pressure-filled, anxiety-inducing, let’s get this over with, less-than-pleasurable experience.
She Might Not Be Into It
Believe it or not, not every woman prefers oral sex to other sexual acts. Reasons for this vary, but some common reasons are:
- Poor experiences with oral sex
- Previous partners did not hit her spot during oral sex
- Boredom from partners not knowing how to eat pussy
- Feeling pressured into it or feeling pressured to orgasm
- Feeling like the guy is eating pussy out of obligation, not genuine interest
- General disinterest in oral sex
Some women would much rather suck a dick like there’s no tomorrow and immediately proceed to penetration because of the intense pressure to orgasm when a guy gives them oral sex.
Other women feel their partner merely gives oral sex to return the favor. She might let you try your hardest, release a few moans to make you feel your efforts aren’t wasted, fake an orgasm, or scream, “I want you inside me so badly” so that you feel you can stop and move on to something else.
There are many reasons why a woman might not desire oral sex. Some reasons are ultimately the fault of previous or current partners, and others come from lack of interest, preferences, wrong time of the month, or low confidence in the bedroom.
You Aren't Eating Pussy Like Your Life Depended on It
If you want to be a masterful pussy eater and cunnilingus expert, the number one thing you can do is eat pussy as if your life depended on it.
Don’t just put your tongue on the clit, move it up and down, and expect her to scream in utter amazement because she won’t unless she’s faking it.
You have to absolutely love pussy eating!
But what if you don’t? If you aren’t enjoying cunnilingus, ask yourself why. Is it because you’re impatient and already want to stick your dick in instead of spending twenty minutes giving her oral sex? Is it because she doesn’t taste good? Before heading down for cunnilingus, take a hot steamy shower together to explore each other’s body, or try licking her in the shower.
Don’t waste your time memorizing a step-by-step action plan for cunnilingus. Spend time getting lost in her pussy, exploring it thoroughly with your tongue, lips, fingers, and toys until you hit a sweet spot when she’s practically locking her legs around your head because she loves what you’re doing.
You Aren't Managing Your Expectations
Cunnilingus looks nothing like porn. You won’t get those loud, earth-shattering screams while she maintains a pretty face of makeup during oral sex. Orgasms look nothing like that. She might shake, cry, have watery eyes, or look like a crazed wild animal. Or she might barely make an audible sound and release a few breathy noises.
Don’t force her to cum. Many guys give oral sex to women expecting to make them cum — she might not! That does not necessarily mean your technique is terrible. If she looked like she enjoyed oral sex, moaned, hastened her breathing, or told you she loved it, then your technique was solid for that particular woman.
Not every woman wants to cum or will cum from oral sex, and it might just be fun or relaxing for her. She might orgasm from anal, toys, or having her G Spot stimulated from penetration.
She feels pressured when you go down on her, expecting that you will get something in return (an orgasm). Essentially, you’ll be shooting yourself in the foot. Instead, tell her that you don’t care if she orgasms. You’re giving her oral sex because you love doing it.
If oral sex isn’t going well for you despite your best efforts, consider blowing her mind with one of these other techniques.
Aftercare
Your pussy eating techniques might be on point, but you won’t be the best lover she ever had without proper aftercare. Aftercare is vital to an amazing sexual experience that will keep her coming back for more or make her praise you as the best she’s ever had for years to come.
Aftercare with a long-term partner can be a very intimate experience because you know each other well, desire to see each other again, and have mutual gratification in mind. Although you are probably already a master of aftercare, here are a few reminders for a more satisfying sexual experience.
- Offer her a T-shirt or something to cover with after sex. Some women like to remain completely nude, while others enjoy wearing their partners' T-shirts.
- Offer water or a snack.
- Cuddle, hug, or kiss her.
- After sex, spend a few moments talking. Tell her how incredible she is and how much you love her (if you love her).
- In the morning, spend time together by having breakfast or coffee before going about your day.
Most guys make the mistake of only providing aftercare to their long-term partner, not realizing that one-night stands and holiday girlfriends need care too.
Aftercare with a one-night stand is much easier than with a partner or someone you want to see again because you don’t have to worry about repeat visits. Here are five easy aftercare tips for cunnilingus with a one-night stand.
- Offer her a shower, a T-shirt to sleep in, water, or snacks during the evening.
- If she leaves before morning, offer to help her get a taxi home and pay for it. Walk her to the door and ensure she gets into the taxi, as walking out of an apartment into an unfamiliar area in the middle of the night is nerve-racking for some women. Plus, it's the gentlemanly thing to do.
- If she stays the night, have breakfast or at least attempt coffee with her before she leaves. This signals that you appreciate her company and aren't trying to rush her out the door.
- Send her a text. Get her contact information even if you never want to see her again, and send her a short text message in the morning to ensure she arrives safely at home and enjoyed the experience. Thank her for choosing to spend the evening with you, not some other guy from the bar. If she left in the middle of the night, don't wait until morning to ensure she arrived safely at her door. Wait 15-40 mins, then send a message to check in on her. Trust us; it makes a difference in her experience when she knows her one-night stand is a good guy.
- Call her to tell her she's an incredible woman and you're glad to have spent the evening with her. You don't need the expectation of a repeat visit to compliment someone, especially if she rocked your world with an amazing blowjob!
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