You may not be able to point to an exact point in time when it happened, but somewhere along the way sex stopped feeling as good as it used to. You may still have a high sex drive, but just don’t find sex as enjoyable as it once was. This is most likely because over time your penis has lost some sensitivity.
It’s completely normal. You can talk to plenty of middle-aged men, and they’ll tell you the same thing. On the bright side, at least you aren’t suffering from premature ejaculation. Low sensitivity, however, is on the other end of the spectrum.
Low sensitivity can also make it difficult to get a full hard-on as well. You will probably require extra stimulation and foreplay to get hard (if you do at all). Remember the days when you could look at a girl in the hallway, and pop a boner? The good news is that there are several ways to increase your penis sensitivity naturally.
This is often the easiest fix. If you live in a cold, dry environment, then your skin can dry out. When skin becomes dry, it gets rougher and thicker. This can lead to your penis losing sensitivity.
Think of it as a callous. If you work with your hands a lot, they will become dried out, and your skin will get thicker, allowing you to do even more work with less pain. The same thing can happen if you don’t moisturize your penis.
It’s essential to use a lotion that’s meant for sensitive skin so you don’t cause any genital irritation. You can even use coconut oil (I’m a big fan). Once you find a lotion that you like, just apply it twice a day: once when you wake up, and again after you get out of the shower. It will make your skin look and feel better, and in addition, you should notice some sensitivity coming back within a few days.
Stop Watching Porn
Did I touch a nerve there? People love their pornography. Since the invention of the video camera, people have been filming scantily clad and nude women. Heck, I spent 10 years in the porn industry. It was great while it lasted. The only difference was that I was having real sex, with real women, while most of you were just watching.
I’m not here to tell you porn is bad as that would be hypocritical. I’m here to talk to you about how watching too much porn is ruining your penis sensitivity. I guarantee you that if you’re viewing porn on a daily basis, then you are contributing to reduced sensitivity.
You see, what happens when you watch porn every night is that your brain becomes used to seeing a wide variety of beautiful women, and associating them with pleasure. What’s happening is that your brain is growing desensitized. This is the reason why one genre of porn can’t get you hard all the time. This is why you look for different, freakier sex the more you watch porn.
Any psychologist will tell you that the body quickly follows the mind. If your mind is becoming more and more desensitized, your body will become desensitized also. I want you to try this for a month: no pornography (that means no pictures, videos, or erotic literature).
Look at it as a challenge. A formal challenge is given by yours truly, Big Mike. I’d be incredibly surprised if you didn’t start regaining the feeling in your penis and having an unquenchable appetite to bed your wife.
Ok, now I’ve definitely hit a nerve. You’re probably about to close your web browser. Stop what you’re doing! Hear me out.
If you’re any type of man, your hand is at least a little bit rough. Let’s face it; our penises were made for soft, wet vaginas, not our rough, calloused hands. When you’re masturbating with your hands, you’re creating heat, friction, and roughening the surface of your skin. All of this is making your skin tougher, and decreasing your penile sensitivity.
So take it as another challenge from me. If you’re suffering from penis insensitivity, then don’t watch porn or masturbate for thirty days. I can assure you of one thing; you will have the sex drive of a raging bull. Your girlfriend will be the happiest she has ever been, and you will find yourself enjoying every minute of sex.
If you’ve never tried to stop masturbating before, and you’re a bit apprehensive, then check out this great post that I made on the topic a while back.
Switch It Up
Years of repeatedly pounding your wife can also have a desensitizing effect on your dick. You’re probably used to the same exact sex position, having the sex for the same amount of time, on the same day of the week that you always do. Where is the fun in that? Even my penis would become desensitized to that.
You need to switch it up (no I’m not telling you to cheat on your wife). You need to try new things in bed. Try some new foreplay. Have fun, do some freaky things that you’ve never tried before. Also, try some dirty talking.
Whatever gets you more interested in sex and more into the mood is something that will break up your daily sex routine and get you more interested.
Could You Have a Deeper Problem?
If you aren’t achieving success with these methods alone, then you could be suffering from Erectile Dysfunction. You’re not alone. Over 75% of men have suffered from ED at some point in their lives.
It will cripple your marriage and cause low self-esteem and depression. However, it’s completely curable. Don’t be that guy who’s always making excuses not to have sex or who isn’t able to please his wife. And if my advice above is just not enough, go nuclear with ED Reverser. Take your problem seriously and get it sorted right now.