What Can I Give My Wife To Make Her Horny? [2024]

What Can I Give My Wife To Make Her Horny? [2024]

The spark tends to burn out when in a long-term relationship. The result is the same whether careers, children, or general improper relationship maintenance has gotten in the way. Over time, she may not want sex anymore or less than she used to.

You’re not alone. Many guys will find themselves in your shoes sometime in their relationship. However, getting the spark back and getting your sex-crazed former girlfriend turned uninterested wife back is surprisingly easy, but… the answer isn’t always what you think.

If you think you need to give her a mansion with a full-service man-servant to make her horny again or an expensive necklace to make the ladies at work go, “Whoa! That’s nice!” you’re wrong — although some wives would undoubtedly love that, and it might even lead to better sex. 

However, there are multiple far better and simpler things you can give your wife to make her horny without breaking the bank. In addition, I will explain how her mind and body work so that you can continue giving her pleasure using your own creative ideas.

Table of Contents

Understanding Her Sexuality

First and foremost, let’s talk about female sexuality. You have to understand it to make a woman’s sex drive go wild.

During sex, both men and women experience phases like orgasm, plateau, and resolution. For men, orgasm is marked by ejaculation and intense pleasure. The plateau phase follows, with high arousal levels but no ejaculation. Resolution is when arousal decreases.

Women also go through similar phases, experiencing intense pleasure during orgasm, sustained arousal in the plateau phase, and a gradual decrease in arousal during resolution. These phases vary in duration and intensity between individuals. Communication and understanding between partners are crucial for mutual satisfaction.

Female sexual desire can be a complex mix of physical, emotional, and psychological factors. Unlike men, who are more visually stimulated, women often require a deeper connection and a sense of emotional intimacy to engage in sexual activities fully.

The female arousal response is not as straightforward as the male response. It’s a gradual process that involves both the mind and the body. It begins with a desire or interest in sex, followed by physiological changes such as increased blood flow to the genitals, vaginal lubrication, and genital swelling. Finally, there is a build-up of sexual tension leading to orgasmic release.

Understanding these differences between male and female arousal is crucial in satisfying your partner’s needs. While men may experience spontaneous desire, women often have responsive desire. This means their desire for sex is often triggered by the right context, including emotional connection, intimacy, and feeling desired.

To summarize; 

– Men typically have a higher sex drive and libido compared to women.

– Men tend to have a stronger physical response to sexual stimuli.

– Women often require more emotional connection and intimacy for sexual satisfaction.

– Men typically have more straightforward sexual responses, while women may have a more complex and varied range of sexual responses.

In order to make her horny, you have to unlock her mind.

Her Hormones

The two major female hormones are estrogen and progesterone. Estrogen is responsible for female characteristics, such as breast growth and vaginal lubrication. Progesterone is necessary for maintaining pregnancy, but it also helps regulate other hormones that affect sexual desire.

So what does that have to do with getting her horny… 

Women experience decreases and increases in those hormones depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle. During ovulation, around day 14 of a standard 28-day cycle, the body releases more hormones, resulting in increased sexual desire. This usually goes along with her ovulation.

Consequently, when her hormones are rising steadily, this time in a woman’s cycle is often when she’ll be most aroused. Therefore, understanding your wife’s menstrual cycle can help you plan for times when she may be more open to sexual activities and experiences.

Near menstruation, she will likely feel less interested in sex due to decreased hormone levels. It’s important to be understanding and patient with your wife during this time. 

In addition, women’s hormones fluctuate naturally over time, so be aware of these changes and how they may affect her libido. All women will experience menopause. This significant life change can cause decreased sex drive for numerous ladies.

Her Anatomy 

The primary erogenous zones for women are the clitoris, G-spot, and nipples. The clitoris is highly sensitive due to its dense concentration of nerve endings. Stimulating this area during foreplay or sex can bring intense sexual pleasure and arousal. However, it is important to note that you should not focus your attention only on the clitoris but rather explore the entire area first to build up sexual tension. 

The G-spot is located on the anterior (front) wall of the vagina; stimulating it can lead to intense orgasms in many women. Finally, the nipples are an erotic zone that often responds to gentle caressing, sucking, or licking.

Although these areas are most likely to give the desired response, it does not mean she can not get pleasure from having other areas touched. Pulling the hair, a light back massage or even a sensual kiss can all be highly arousing.

Review the image above, detailing the most common erogenous zones, and have fun exploring with your partner.

Her Mental Health 

Poor mental health can have a significant impact on her libido. If she is feeling depressed, overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed, it’s likely that her desire for sex will be diminished.

To help her maintain a healthy libido, you should encourage her to practice self-care activities such as yoga, meditation, and personal time. Additionally, supporting her in seeking professional help, if necessary, can go a long way in improving her mental health.

It’s also worth mentioning that some women have some form of sexual trauma. Abused women can suffer from a host of negative side effects to both their minds and bodies long after the abuse or trauma has ended. Many women report continued low self-esteem, poor body image, and a decreased interest in sexual activity.

A woman suffering from negative past relationship issues needs time and care before she can engage in intimate relationships again.

15 Things to Give or Do to Make Your Wife Horny

Every woman is different regarding what turns them on and how they like to be pleasured. Hence, the power of knowing and understanding your partner cannot be understated. Start there. After that, try several or even all of these things you can give or do for your wife to make her horny again.

1. Find What She Finds Pleasurable

Finding what she finds pleasurable can be a process of trial and error. Every woman has unique preferences regarding sex, so take the time to figure out what your wife likes or dislikes.

Start with gentle touches, pay attention to her body language, and try asking her what she would like you to do for her. Keep your questions easy, as some women may not know how to answer detailed inquiries. A simple “Do you like that?” and “Should I go softer or harder?” can get you further than a very open-ended question. Once you have identified some areas she enjoys, experiment with techniques.

2. Talk Openly About Sex

Start by selecting a time when you’re both relaxed and free from distractions. This conversation requires vulnerability and trust, so make sure you’re both in the right headspace.

Next, be honest and straightforward. Share your desires, fantasies, and any concerns you may have. And don’t forget communication is a two-way street. You can encourage your partner to share her desires and concerns, too. This dialogue will deepen your understanding of each other’s needs.

Lastly, remember that sex is all about mutual enjoyment. Pay attention to your partner’s responses and feedback, and be open to adjusting and exploring different avenues of pleasure. Remember, the goal is to create a pleasurable and satisfying experience for both of you.

3. Practice Sexual Confidence & Dominance

Before we go any further, let’s clarify that dominance in the bedroom is all about consensual power play and mutual pleasure. It’s about exploring your desires and your partner’s, creating a safe and exhilarating space for both of you.

So, how can you cultivate sexual confidence and dominance? Well, it starts with knowing yourself. Understand your own desires, fantasies, and boundaries. When you’re confident in your own skin, it is a major turn-on for your partner.

How you carry yourself and interact with your wife can send strong signals of desire. Stand tall, maintain good posture, make deliberate movements, and make eye contact when speaking to her. Show her that you’re confident in yourself and your attraction to her. Your posture, voice, and gestures can convey dominance and confidence.

And when it comes to touch, be intentional and sensual. Lightly brush your fingers against her skin, give her a passionate kiss when you greet her or surprise her with a gentle touch on her lower back as you walk together. 

Another important aspect of sexual dominance is taking control. This doesn’t mean being oppressive or disrespectful. It means leading and guiding your partner to new heights of pleasure. During sex, guide her and your movement and take initiative when it comes to trying new things.

4. Work on Your Appearance

You know, the power of how you look and present yourself to your wife can actually be a major turn-on for her. 

First things first, let’s talk about grooming. Now, I’m not saying you need to be perfectly groomed at all times, but taking care of yourself and maintaining good hygiene can ignite that spark in your relationship.

Dressing in a way that makes you feel confident and attractive will naturally make your wife take notice. Find clothes that fit and are well-tailored to your body. 

But appearance-based stimulation doesn’t stop at just grooming and clothing. Pay attention to your overall physique and fitness level as well. Regular exercise and a healthy lifestyle benefit your physical health and make you feel more confident and desirable. Find a fitness routine that works for you and stick to it – hitting the gym, running, or practicing a sport you love. 

5. Stimulate All Her Senses

A great way to make your wife horny is to stimulate her senses. Touching, tasting, and smelling play essential roles in arousal, so take the time to explore these sensations with your partner.

Sight

They say that eyes are the windows to the soul. Start by setting the mood with some mood lighting. Dim the lights, light candles, or even install a romantic light fixture.

Think about creating a warm and inviting atmosphere that screams romance. And fellas, don’t forget about your appearance. Dress up for her and show her that you still try to look good for her during these occasions.

Sound

Music can evoke emotions and set the tone for some intimate moments together. But remember, it’s not just about music.

You can pleasure every inch of her body and get nowhere, but talk to her in your deepest, sexiest voice and tell her all the sexual things you can’t wait to do to her… she’s soaking wet. So try to whisper sweet nothings into her ear, dirty talk, and tell her how much she means to you.

In addition, when was the last time you told her she looked beautiful? Talk to your partner as if it’s the first time. Constantly give her compliments and admire whatever drew you to her in the first place.

Many guys struggle with giving compliments and dirty talk, so instead of vocalizing your thoughts, start by texting her or leaving notes around the house.

Smell

Did you know that certain scents can boost arousal and trigger sensual memories? Invest in scented candles, essential oils, or even her favorite perfume. The key is to find scents that she finds alluring.

And don’t forget; it’s not just about the ambiance. Ensure you’re well-groomed and smelling irresistible when you get close to her. A well-chosen cologne can be a powerful aphrodisiac. But here’s the thing – choose wisely.

You don’t want to go overboard and drown yourself in a cloud of fragrance. The way to go is with a subtle, masculine scent that complements your natural body odor. It should leave a hint of intrigue when your wife gets close to you. Trust me, when she catches a whiff, it’ll definitely get her attention.

Taste

They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but let me tell you, it works both ways. Surprise her with a romantic dinner, cook her favorite meal, or even explore new culinary adventures together. 

Take pride in cooking and do so nude if you have to. Cook a nice dinner together and focus on adding as many aphrodisiac foods as possible, such as a seafood salad or oysters paired with white wine. Strawberries dipped in chocolate are also a nice touch.

Touch

Ah, the obvious one, right? Well, not so fast. Physical touch is essential, but it’s not just about jumping straight into bed.  Explore your wife’s body with your hands, using long, sweeping strokes and gentle caresses. Start with her neck and shoulders, back, legs, and feet. 

You’ll get a favorable sexual response by starting the evening with a sensual massage. You don’t have to be a professional masseur, although that would undoubtedly help. Grab some olive or coconut oil from the kitchen or massage oils, warm it up between your hands, and then caress her body from top to bottom.

Ask her to lay flat on her stomach, completely nude. Take your time caressing between her legs, and might we recommend a pussy massage while in the area? Then, ask her to turn around and stroke down from her neck, each breast, her stomach, her waist, and then her thighs and legs. Ensure you give every erogenous zone some love and attention before moving on to the next.

The key to a great sensual massage is to save the genital area for last! Her pussy and, more importantly, her clit should be the last things on your mind.

Don’t underestimate the power of a simple touch in everyday situations. A light touch on the small of her back as you navigate through a crowded room, a gentle hand on her thigh during a movie, or even a playful tickle can all build anticipation and desire throughout the day. These small gestures show her that you are present, attentive, and interested in connecting with her physically.

Experiment with different types of touch to discover what resonates with your wife the most. Some women may love a firm, deep massage, while others prefer a feather-light touch.

6. Give Her Non-Sexual Touches

This may seem counterintuitive when making your wife horny – non-sexual touches. Yes, you read that right. Sometimes, the best way to get your lady in the mood is by focusing on non-sexual forms of physical intimacy. Trust me, it can work wonders!

You see, women have this amazing ability to connect emotionally through touch. It’s not always about getting straight to the action.

By giving her non-sexual touches throughout the day, you’re building a deeper emotional bond and laying the groundwork for some mind-blowing intimacy later on.

So, what types of non-sexual touches can you give her, you may ask? Well, let me break it down for you:

Affectionate caresses: Take a moment to caress her back, stroke her hair, or gently hold her hand.

Mindful massages: Give her a hand or foot massage throughout the day at the dinner table or when sitting on the sofa.

Cuddle sessions: Snuggling up together on the couch or in bed can be incredibly intimate and comforting. Wrap your arms around her and hold her close.

Gentle kisses: Plant soft, lingering kisses on her forehead, cheeks, or neck. 

Loving embraces: Embrace her in a tight, passionate hug. Show her that you can’t get enough of her and you’re there to support and protect her. 

The key here is to focus on intention and mindfulness. Be fully present in these non-sexual touches and let her know you’re offering them purely out of love and admiration. Let her feel your affection and care without expecting it to lead to anything sexual.

7. Give More Foreplay

Foreplay is all about building anticipation and increasing arousal for both you and your partner. By dedicating more time and attention to this often-overlooked aspect of lovemaking, you’ll be amazed at the incredible benefits it can bring to your relationship.

Here are some stimulating foreplay ideas that will drive her wild:

Teasing and Tickling: Lightly run your fingers over her skin, teasing and playfully tickling her. This creates anticipation and sends shivers of pleasure down her spine. Pay special attention to her neck, inner thighs, and breasts. These areas are sensitive and incredibly erogenous.

Oral Pleasure: Show your prowess by giving her exquisite oral pleasure. Take the time to explore every contour, gently using your tongue and lips to drive her wild. Experiment with different techniques and observe her reactions to discover what she enjoys most.

Sensory Play: Incorporate using blindfolds, feathers, ice cubes, or silk scarves to heighten her senses. Sensory play can add an element of surprise and novelty, making the experience even more enjoyable for both of you. The unexpected sensations can awaken her arousal and create unforgettable sensations.

Kissing: Take the time to kiss passionately and explore each other’s mouths with fervor. Kiss not only her lips but also her neck, ears, and other erogenous zones. Let your lips talk.

Remember, guys, foreplay is not a box to tick off on your way to orgasm. It’s an integral part of the sexual experience that fosters both partners’ intimacy, arousal, and pleasure. Take your time, be present, and explore new sensations together. 

8. Give Her Mindful Gifts

One of the most effective ways to make your wife horny is by giving her mindful gifts. These are not just any ordinary presents, but thoughtful gestures that show you truly understand her desires and needs. By giving her these gifts, you demonstrate your attentiveness and care, which can ignite her sexual desire like never before.

So, what exactly do I mean by mindful gifts? Well, it’s about understanding what turns her on mentally and emotionally. We all know that women’s sexual arousal is not solely based on physical factors but also on their state of mind. By tapping into her mind, you can unleash her sexual drive in ways you never thought possible.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

Quality Time: Give her the gift of uninterrupted, focused attention. Plan a date night where you can both connect and enjoy each other’s company. This could be a romantic dinner, a picnic in the park, or even a weekend getaway. The key is to create an environment where she feels loved and cherished, making her more open to exploring her sexual desires with you.

Personalized Surprises: Show her that you pay attention to the little details. Surprise her with something that reflects her interests or hobbies. It could be a book by her favorite author, a ticket to see her favorite band in concert or even a piece of jewelry with a deep meaning.

Erotic Literature or Movies: Stimulate her mind with erotic literature or movies. Choose books or movies that align with her tastes and preferences. Discussing the content together can also create a deeper connection and open up conversations about desires and fantasies.

9. Give Her New Experiences

Stepping outside the ordinary can reignite the flame of desire and inject some excitement into your relationship.

Surprise your wife with an intimate getaway to a place she’s always wanted to visit. A change of scenery can work wonders for both her mental and physical health, helping her let go of stress and enabling her to unleash her sexual desires fully.

Women love surprise romance. Plus, the fact that you thought about and planned a trip for you both to enjoy will bring her pleasure.

Women enjoy feeling cared for and safe, and they also enjoy having their man’s attention. By planning an unexpected vacation or weekend away trip for you both, you give her the many things she may have been craving lately.

If the relationship has been out on turbulent seas, fighting gigantic waves, and is minutes from sinking into the depths of the deep, then an unexpected holiday away from the children and responsibilities isn’t just nice; it’s absolutely needed!

Relationship maintenance is the key to keeping passion alive in bed. Otherwise, hot sex will escape out the window when life’s responsibilities come in through the front door.

Here are a few more ideas to incorporate into your relationship.

10. Be a Sex Explorer

Explore new sexual territory by trying out different positions, toys, or role-playing scenarios. Remember, experimentation can be an exciting journey, and stepping out of your comfort zone can bring you mind-blowing pleasure.

There are a variety of toys and accessories designed specifically for female pleasure, such as vibrators, clitoral stimulators, and G-spot massagers. Try out a new sex toy every month or every so often to get more excitement in the bedroom.

11. Be a Master of Seduction

Taking the lead in creating a seductive atmosphere can be a huge turn-on for her. Send her suggestive texts throughout the day, describing in detail what you can’t wait to do to her later. Set up a surprise date night at home with mood lighting, soft music, and a sensual feast for her taste buds. Or instruct her to meet you at a hotel. Don’t give her too many details. Keep it as a surprise so that anticipation can build.

12. Give Her Romance

Go on a date night once a week. Women enjoy a romantic dinner, followed by seemingly spontaneous desire where you’re ready to rip her clothes off, toss her down on the bed, and enact your wildest fantasies.

Long-term relationships lose romance as time passes, and, likely, you have not even thought of taking her out on a date in a long time, especially if children are in the mix.

Romance means something different to every woman. For your partner, that might be a nice candle-lit dinner, and for others, it might entail standing outside in the rain with the radio over your head playing the 80s’ greatest hits.

Whatever you do, do it with passion, and it will come across as romantic or at least an honest effort, which she will appreciate. For example, a walk around the park can be romantic if you unexpectedly whip out flowers and a blanket, whine from a backpack, and tell her that you will watch the sunset together.

13. Give Her Something Sexy

Simple — give her sexy lingerie. Sometimes, putting on silky and lacey bras and panties is enough to make her horny. If putting it on isn’t enough, ask her to model it for you, and while she does, tell her how incredibly sexy she looks. Don’t be afraid to be descriptive! You can make your wife horny by telling her how much you desire her at that very moment.

14. Give Her An At-Home Spa Date

Making a woman horny starts with her mind. You can give her body everything it needs, but if her mind is somewhere in Neverland, her libido will be too!

The female libido is highly tied to her mood and emotions. When a woman is stressed or attending to a million different problems, her mind is far away from intimacy and sex. If your partner has been busy with work, children, or general life problems, give her an at-home spa date where she can take her mind off everything inhibiting her sex drive.

The point is to show that you care about her mental and physical health. You don’t need to do much to get the point across. A simple hot bath with bubbles waiting for her as soon as she gets home, taking the kids to their friend’s house for the evening, and fixing the broken sink you’ve promised to fix for the past three months is enough.

However, if you want optimal results, we recommend you go above and beyond. Instead of just running a hot bubble bath for her, set up the bedroom or living room with cushions and have her favorite food on the table when she gets out of the bathtub.

15. Give Her and Yourself Professional Help

Professional help does not look like sitting on a therapist’s sofa, discussing everything that contributed to your dysfunctional sex life, why your libido isn’t what it used to be, and the 100 other obligations that keep her from unleashing her sexual desire.

Professional help does not have to look like a prescription drug. Take these supplements to rid yourself of any sexual dysfunction you might be experiencing! Eat this diet! Take these medially-proven pills to enhance female libido, and you’ll be sorted!

If you have tried either of those two things, which worked for your relationship, and you are now satisfied with your sex life, then I’m happy for you.

But professional help doesn’t need to be that conventional. Talking to a sex coach, hint, you’re doing that now, can be incredibly beneficial for the health of your relationship. You can find plenty of books written by sex coaches, Youtube tutorials, and even multi-day programs designed to help you understand the female sexual desire and get her sexual appetite back.

If you’re interested in spirituality, might I recommend Tantra? You can read all about it from sterile sites such as the British Museum [1], your favorite source of information known as Wikipedia [2], or even WedMD [3].

Tantric sex is not based on sexual desire but rather on interconnecting bodies. In most cases, practitioners will put off orgasms to focus on enhancing intimacy and closeness with their partner.

Many forms of professional help are accessible to men who want to make their wives horny again. Attempt one or more until you find the one that works for you and your situation.

Expert Advice

As a relationship expert, I’ve heard countless stories from individuals facing challenges similar to yours over the years. Let me share a personal anecdote about how I deepened my connection with my partner by planning a spontaneous hiking trip into the woods, aligning with her love language for quality time.

Love languages, as defined by Dr. Gary Chapman, encapsulate the diverse ways people express and receive love. These languages include acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time, and gift-giving. Each person has a primary love language that resonates with them, and understanding and catering to it can significantly enhance your relationship.

Recognizing my partner’s affinity for quality time, I decided to plan a special adventure that would allow us to connect on a deeper level. Instead of focusing solely on material gifts, I orchestrated a surprise hiking trip into the serene wilderness.

The goal wasn’t to impress her with extravagant presents but to create meaningful experiences together. As we ventured into the woods, surrounded by the beauty of nature, we shared laughter, stories, and moments of genuine connection.

This spontaneous getaway brought us closer and strengthened our bond in ways that material gifts couldn’t. It demonstrated my commitment to understanding her needs and nurturing our relationship through shared experiences.

So, take the time to understand your partner’s love language and find ways to cater to it. Whether through quality time, acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, or a combination thereof, prioritize nurturing your connection in ways that resonate with them.

Frequently Asked Questions

As a sex and relationship coach, my clients have asked me pretty much anything you can imagine. These are a few of the most commonly asked questions.

Are there specific foods or drinks to boost arousal?

Yes, some foods like spicy chili peppers or drinks like red wine can make you feel more excited. Trying them during meals or romantic times might help.

Can scents or oils stimulate my wife’s desire?

Certain scents like lavender, jasmine, ylang-ylang, and sandalwood can make her feel more romantic. You can use them in massages or as air fresheners to create a romantic atmosphere.

Any media to spark arousal?

Reading romantic novels, watching movies, or looking at art can help set the mood. Just make sure to choose things that both of you enjoy and are comfortable with.

How to create a sensual atmosphere at home?

You can dim the lights, play soft music, and light candles to make the environment more romantic. Cooking a special meal together or giving each other massages can also help.

Lingerie or clothing to increase intimacy?

Choose lingerie or clothing that makes her feel sexy and confident. Soft fabrics like lace or silk can feel nice against the skin and help set the mood.

What’s the role of communication and emotional connection?

Talking openly about your feelings and desires can bring you closer together. Showing affection and spending quality time together can also strengthen your emotional bond.

Relaxation techniques for sexual receptivity?

Encourage activities like yoga or meditation to help her relax and feel more open to intimacy. Creating a calm and comfortable environment at home can also help.

Do toys enhance arousal?

Experimenting with toys like vibrators or massage oils can help. You can even try buying toys together and planning a date night.

How do I express myself without words?

Show your desire through affectionate gestures like hugs, kisses, or gentle touches. Paying attention to her needs and desires can also make her feel desired and appreciated.

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One thought on “What Can I Give My Wife To Make Her Horny? [2024]

  1. I find this hard to believe. My experience with many different women is, they’re either horny or they’re not. They either love sex or they think it’s “meh”. They either can’t keep their hands off of you, or they’re just unenthusiastic and bored, insecure, prude, hormones outta whack etc. All this stuff about romancing her, wining and dining her, complimenting her, taking her to a spa day, blah blah blah.. NONE of it will work on a woman that doesn’t like to have sex and isn’t horny on her own.

    There’s two things that make women horny: their own brain (sexy imagination, thoughts, desires, playfulness, etc), and their hormones (no cortisol, not too high estrogen, etc). If a woman has a natural desire and curiosity for sex on top of a healthy well working body, free of any hormonal, ovarian, or vaginal issues.. You’re good, and she will like to have sex with you, and you will find her initiating.

    Buying her things, complimenting her, taking her places, doing things for her.. All this garbage is the behavior of nice guys, betas, and simps. If doing all of this stuff made women horny then nice guys and betas and simps would all be getting laid all the time, but theyre not.

    If you’re in a relationship thinking doing all this extra nice crap will get you laid, you’re gonna be gravely disappointed. It’ll show the woman you care about her and like her and all that, but more importantly what it’ll do is it’ll tell the woman that she doesn’t have to do a damn thing for YOU in order to be treated like a queen. You can do absolutely everything for her.. Massage her feet at night, buy her stuff, write her love notes, get her flowers and chocolate, take out the trash, do the dishes and laundry, etc etc etc, but none of that is sexual or arousing to women no matter what they tell you. A woman will never respond to simp behavior. Women respond to you being a man as you are, but only if they are PRIMED to respond by having a working brain and a working body while simultaneously being attracted to you.

    By all means don’t neglect her, but don’t expect to get laid by doing all this article states. It won’t work. You’ll be gravely disappointed and resentful. So instead what you should do if your girl isn’t horny and putting out is tell her to get her hormones checked, tell her to get her brain right and be open and think dirty thoughts, and tell her you’re not gonna wait around forever for her to fix yourself because it’s not fair that she doesn’t want to enjoy sex with you as often as you do with her. Say all this in the way you can get her to listen to you and understand your point of view. And if the issue persists, then get out and find someone else.

    I cannot overstate how important sexual compatibility is in a relationship. You NEED to find someone who has the same desire and libido as you. Otherwise you will be frustrated for the rest of your entire life and you will resent her.
    (source: married 4 years and have a kid)

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