Maybe you’ve just started a new relationship and you want this girl to fall hard for you. Or maybe you’re married with kids and a mortgage and just want to rekindle that old passion you used to have.
No worries – this article will teach you how to make her fall in love with you no matter your situation.
Why? I’m glad you asked.
It’s because I’m not sharing any specific tips or techniques that you need to do in order to make her head over heels in love with you. Those may be effective in the short term, but long term they cease to work and you’re back at square one.
No. What I’m sharing here are behaviours – things you need to be in order to make her love you. It’s only by changing your behaviour that she will start to feel that passion and be attracted to you.
That means that it will take some time for her to fall in love. It won’t be love at first sight. But that’s a good thing – that kind of love usually fizzles out pretty quickly. What you are doing here is setting a solid foundation for something lasting, something that isn’t dependent on her whims and spurs of the moment.
And what are those behaviours? Here are the three most important ones:
Be Great In Bed
Being great in bed involves many different skills. It involves talking dirty, being dominant, some light BDSM, lasting long, giving her orgasm, etc.
I can’t possibly cover all of these things here.
So, if there is one thing I want you to take away from this article it’s this:
For women, sex is as much (or more) psychological as it is physical.
Or, to put it in simpler terms – orgasm happens in her headfirst.
That means you really want to get inside her head and figure out what makes her tick. Find out what her fantasies are, what makes her soaking wet. Talk dirty to her in a way that you know will electrify her.
Almost no guy does this and it’s a shame. Because once you do, you’ll become one of the elite few that not only can give her earth-shattering orgasms consistently… you’ll also be the one she gets addicted to.
And, once she’s addicted to you, it’s only a matter of time before she’s in love with you.
You would think that, in order to make her fall in love with you, you would have to spend an enormous amount of time with her. After all, how can she fall for you if you are not around?
It’s only logical to think this way. It’s also completely wrong.
Familiarity breeds…well, maybe not contempt, but certainly boredom.
If you’re always around and available for her anytime she calls you, she will get used to you. She will start to value your time (and you) less and less. Understand that she’s not doing this on purpose – it’s a human trait not to value things that are easily available.
But, and here is the good news, the opposite is also true. If something is unavailable, or scarce, we tend to value that much more highly. That’s why limited editions of something always sell better than ordinary editions – they are limited (scarce) and thus they are more valuable.
How can you apply this to your life?
It’s simple really. Make yourself unavailable.
Now, I don’t mean disappear completely from the face of the earth.
If you are seeing her 3-4 times a week, start seeing her less, say 2 times a week. Don’t pick up the phone every time she calls or sends you a text.
One other thing. It’s desirable that you acquire a hobby or some other activity to fill out that time you’re now not spending with her. If you’re sitting at home twirling your thumbs it kind of defeats the point of doing all this.
No. You need to get a hobby, pick up a spot, go to the gym, etc. Something that you’re doing for yourself and that doesn’t have anything to do with her.
Bonus point? You won’t have to pretend you’re busy or that you didn’t have time to return her calls – you’re actually too busy for that because of your training/hobby/sport/whatever.
Women are not attracted to wimps, no matter what your feminist friend tells you.
Women were attracted to masculine, dominant men 2000 years ago. They are attracted to those men today. And they will be attracted to those men 2000 years from now.
It’s useless to argue, cry, or wish things were different. This is basic human biology and it’s not going to change.
What can change is your behaviour. Yes, despite what you may think, you can learn to be dominant.
How? Here are some basic tips:
Take charge. Being dominant means being a leader, not a follower. That means you start making more decisions, and you tell her, not ask her, what to do.
Be big. While there are small, skinny dominant guys out there (and Napoleon did conquer most of Europe) humans are basically smart animals. In the animal kingdom size=dominance. So get your ass to the gym and start lifting weights.
Be tough. Can you think of one dominant man you know in your life who constantly bitches and complains? I thought so. Being dominant means you learn how to take care of stuff on your own, without expecting a shoulder to cry on.
I just want to end this article with this: You can’t make every girl fall in love with you. That is impossible and anyone who is telling you this is a snake oil salesman looking to con you. What you can do (by adopting the traits above) is exponentially increase your chances of her falling in love.
So you might not get every single girl, but with this advice, you’ll get two or three times more of them to fall for you – hard.
P.S. The most important thing on this list is lasting longer in bed. You can have the looks of Channing Tatum and the charisma of James Bond – if you suck in bed, she’s never going to fall in love with you. Check out my Secrets To Lasting Longer program to get started.